It started 8 years ago - when were young, naive and carefree There were some flirtatious glances and banter exchanged at a few social events. It should come at no surprise that when Ricky eventually asked for a 1st date - we went to a bar and YES... watched an Arsenal game. (Advice: theres a lot of acceptance that comes with a long relationship ..... I have officially also accepted Arsenal in my heart) 8 years down (and many pet fish down) - we are wiser, more mature, have more wrinkles.But we have learned over the years together as a couple the importance of persistence, compassion, understanding and respect. [Occasionally - death threats and eye rolling still happens] ..... but we are imperfect after all :):) ...................8 years worth of memories later and we cannot wait to leap into our new chapter as husband and wife <3