FAQs
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What is different about an Orthodox wedding service?
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Traditionally, we stand during all of our services. A wedding ceremony is a Church service, and there will be standing room with limited seating available. I understand it isn't ideal to stay standing for so long. The service typically lasts 45 to 50 minutes. Therefore, comfortable footwear is encouraged.
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Why do Orthodox stand during services?
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As Orthodox Christians, we stand during worship because that is how the Christian Church worshiped for nearly sixteen centuries. It is not required for us to stand, but a choice. You do not have to stand if you do not want to. There are chairs if you choose to sit.
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What is the meaning of the joining of hands?
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The right hands of the bride and groom are joined during the ceremony to symbolize the union coming from God. The couple's hands are joined and remain together for the entirety of the service.
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Why do we wear crowns?
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The priest takes the crowns from the table and blesses the bride and groom. He places them on their heads praying, "O Lord our God, crown them with glory and honor." We wear crowns for three reasons. 1. They conform to Biblical teachings that God bestows His blessing upon His children in the form of crowns. 2. They identify the bride and groom as the beginning of a new kingdom. 3. Crowns represent martyrdom. The couple bears witness to Christ's presence in their lives, which requires both to die to themselves their own desires and to give of their lives for the other.
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What is the purpose of Icons?
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The Orthodox Church uses icons to assist in worship. Icons are a 'window to heaven' and they help us to focus on the divine things. While the icons still contain material aspects, like paint and color, we are taught not to reject our physical life but instead to transform it, as was done by the holy people represented by the icons. It is important to note that the icons themselves are venerated only, not worshipped; we only worship God.