FAQs
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What can we expect at this event since it's called a Wedding Reception rather than a Wedding?
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We are excited to see you at long last! Because we took the plunge and tied the knot, our event will be more of a party than anything else. We will renew our vows from November 11, 2020, and then plan to celebrate with you all! We're so grateful to finally have the chance to share the day with you!
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What should we wear?
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Black tie optional. Come dressed in your colorful cocktail party finest and be prepared to dance!
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Will dinner be served?
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You'll enjoy dinner by the bite, which is to say amazing and heavy passed appetizers. We promise you won't leave hungry. You’ll enjoy the following: Phase One: Hot Hors D’Oeuves - Steak Frites: Potato confit, béarnaise - Smoked Salmon Croque Monsieur with green herb dust - Peking Duck Wontons with hoisin sauce, radish and scallion - Mac & Cheese cupcakes with smoked tomato chutney and crispy kale Phase One: Cold Hors D’Oeuvres - Classic Shrimp Cocktail with horseradish gin cocktail sauce - Avocado Toast with ginger, radish, cia pink pepper corn and grain bread - Persian Cucumber Cup with fava bean hummus, olive tapenade and za’atar - Deviled Quail Egg with pickled beets, dill, root chip Phase Two: Heartier Passings - Steakhouse in a Bite: boneless short rib topped with creamed spinach and leeks skewered with a crispy tater tot - Heirloom Tomato Pizzettas with robiola & mozzarella cheese, olive tapenade, arugula & basil oil - Sips & Sandwiches: tomato fennel bisque with truffled grilled cheese - Lobster Rolls with herbed buttered brioche bun and old bay chips Phase Three: Butlered Small Plates - Citrus Crab Cakes with fennel, radish and orange salad - Sirloin Sliders with Hudson valley cheddar, smoked bacon, onion jam and tomato aioli - Duo of Miniature Crispy Tacos: spiced pernil and chile lime chicken Dessert: in addition to the wedding cake, we will have - Domes: tiramisu & pb&j chocolate - Tarts: key lime beehive & seasonal fruit streusel - Chocolate: strawberry chocolate pave and mini chocolate bundt cakes - Fruit: cherry coconut macaroons & dried fruit mendiants Drinks: we will have wine, beer, and a specialty cocktail plus unlimited juice/soda.
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Are children invited?
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This event is really a cocktail party to celebrate our wedding, so it's more suitable for adults. If you aren't able to get childcare, however, we absolutely understand. Mason and Tommy will definitely be there to enjoy the big event. If you plan to bring your little ones, please let us know ASAP so we can make a good plan to keep them happy.
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Do you have a registry?
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We do, and it's a tab on this page! However, so many of you were so kind to buy us a wedding gift in November 2020. Please, please, do not buy us another gift! One is more than enough. We've updated our registry for those who very kindly asked.
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Do I need to be vaccinated to attend?
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Yes, please plan to bring proof of vaccination for all guests, as well as an ID card. If you are not vaccinated, although we will miss you, you will not be admitted into the venue, unfortunately.
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Will you have a rehearsal dinner or other events?
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There's really nothing to rehearse...we already did it! :) We're excited to see you at the reception, but we wanted to limit the group events so there's time for you to explore NYC.
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What COVID precautions are you taking?
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We are working hard to keep you safe. We've hired a company that uses a trained dog to detect COVID. You can learn more about them here: https://bdk9.com/. The process is very easy (and kind of remarkable!). You simply stand in a line with others, and the dog briefly sniffs your hand (or your mask if you have one that you've removed). If she doesn't detect anything, he moves right along. If he detects something, he will sit. If you come up as positive, we will have back up tests you can use to confirm, if you would like to. No one will be required to submit to screening, but we hope you will to help others stay safe. In addition, we've postponed three times to try to find the safest date we could. A portion of the event will be on the roof deck, weather permitting. There are large sliding glass windows for ventilation for indoor portions. Vaccines are mandatory and will be checked by the venue. We will provide masks and hand sanitizer for all guests who want them. We will follow all masking guidelines in place at the time of the event. Planning an event in this era is a challenge, but know we are trying very hard!
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What time should I arrive?
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We get started at 6pm.
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Can I bring a date?
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Yes! Just please let us know.