FAQs

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How do I RSVP?

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To RSVP, please click the RSVP tab here on our website and type in your name. All invited guests in your party will appear here to mark as "will attend" or "will not attend". Please RSVP by May 31, 2024. All RSVPs received after this date will be marked as "will not attend".

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What date should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP no later than May 31, 2024 by visiting the RSVP page on our website. Due to very limited capacity at our venue, we have to provide our final head count to our vendors by this date in order to accommodate everyone appropriately on the day of our wedding. If you do not RSVP on time, we will assume that you are unable to attend. Thank you for understanding.

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Can I still come if I didn't RSVP?

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Unfortunately, we cannot accommodate those who do not RSVP. Because of limited venue capacity, we have to give final headcount to all vendors on June 7th. Thank you for understanding!

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What do I do if I can’t make it?

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You will be dearly missed! If you cannot make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP “not attending” so we can plan accordingly. Thank you!

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Can I bring a friend or date?

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Due to very limited capacity at our venue, the formal invitation will indicate if you can bring a plus one by saying “your name and guest”.

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Are children allowed?

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While we love your kids, the venue does have limited capacity. Invitations will be specific and include the names of the children who have been invited. We request that if your little ones are upset or disruptive, that you kindly step out of ceremony space until it is over. We do encourage you to use this evening as a fun "night out" for yourselves! Note: Mehendi (Henna) night will be females aged 10+ only event!

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Where is parking?

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Parking is onsite at Bull Run Swim & Racquet Club and Durga Temple. Bel Air 1740 - In addition to on-site and on-street parking is also available at neighboring Saint Margaret's Church, which allows use of its parking lot for events at Bel Air 1740 unless there is a conflict with a church activity.

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Will the wedding take place indoor or outdoor?

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Henna - The event will be held indoor. Hindu Wedding Ceremony - The event will be held indoor. Christian Wedding Ceremony and Reception - The ceremony will be outdoor. Cocktail hour will be in a covered patio. The reception will be held indoor. Please dress accordingly and make sure to check weather conditions leading to the event. We are hoping for great weather. But just in case, we will move the ceremony and cocktail hour in a covered patio. There is plenty outdoor space for guests to enjoy if weather is accommodating. Additionally, please keep in mind that the venue primarily has grass and gravel terrain.

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What is the dress code?

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We’d love to see our family and friends dressed up for our big day! For Henna Night, we request our guests to dress in yellow, green, or orange attires. For Hindu Ceremony, we request our guests to dress up festive in formal or black-tie optional attire. Formal dress code for women includes floor length gowns, saree, or lehenga. If you're unable to find a Nepali outfit for the wedding and want to wear one, consider wearing a crop top and flowy skirt for a lehenga-inspired look. For Christian Ceremony and Reception, dress to impress in your best formal or black-tie optional attire. We kindly ask that you avoid colors traditionally reserved for bride - whites, ivories, and creams. Since it is a fusion event, feel free to wear traditional Nepali outfits like saree or lehenga.

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Where can I buy Nepali outfits?

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Lashkaraa - https://www.lashkaraa.com/ Mirraw - https://m.mirraw.com/amp If you are in Virginia, there are a few stores that will allow you to try outfits on. Text Richa at (703) 203-4591 for more information. If you're unable to find a Nepali outfit for the wedding and want to wear one, consider wearing a crop top and flowy skirt for a lehenga-inspired look.

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What are your wedding colors?

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Our wedding colors are sage green, baby blue, lavender, and pastel pink.

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What time should I arrive by?

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Henna - Guests henna will begin at 3 pm, please arrive by then. Henna artists are booked for 4 hours. Please arrive on time. Hindu Wedding Ceremony - Bride's side of family, please arrive by 4 pm to get ready to welcome Janti (groom's side of family). Groom's side of family, please arrive by 5pm. Ceremony will begin at 5:30 pm. Christian Wedding Ceremony and Reception - The ceremony will begin at 4:30 pm, please arrive no later than 4:15 pm or you will sadly miss out on our ceremony.

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Is it okay to take pictures/videos with our phones during the wedding?

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Absolutely! We only request that guests remain respectful of our photographer and videographer so that they are able to capture all our special moments.

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What type of food will be served?

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Get ready for a flavorful fusion of Nepali and American cuisines. From appetizers to desserts, our menu will offer something for everyone. Stay tuned for more details on the specific menu items closer to the wedding date. Note: We will only be serving vegetarian food at the temple.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! The drinks are on us on Henna night and Reception Day and the hangover is on you — get ready to party! Note: No alcohol will be permitted at the temple.

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Can I bring my own adult beverages?

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We will be supplying alcohol and have bartending service who will be handling the beverages. Due to venue policy and regulations, you are not allowed to bring any other alcoholic beverages onto the premises.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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We've secured a block of hotel rooms from July 8th to July 14th at Courtyard Potomac Mills Woodbridge. Please book early and ask for “Kharel-Jackson wedding” discounted rate. Our booking link gives you the flexibility to adjust your stay duration according to your plans. Booking link is listed under “Travel” tab. Last Day to Book for discounted rate is Friday, June 21, 2024

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Do you have any recommendations for where to eat, points of interest or things to do?

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Yes! We recommend visiting the 'Activities' page of our wedding website, where we've compiled all of our favorite local hot spots and fun things to do in the area, including coffee shops, spas and restaurants to visit before or after the wedding.

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Do you have a registry?

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We’re simply grateful for your presence to celebrate with us! As we have been together for many years, we are blessed enough to have everything we currently need. In lieu of gifts, please consider contributing to one of our cash funds which can be found on our website. Thank you kindly!

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I have a question not answered here. How do I contact you?

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Please call or text Richa at (703) 203-4591 or Gary at (703) 296-2624 with any questions you may have. We would love to help you!