FAQs

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What the **** happened to the wedding?!

Answer

We appreciate your patience! After starting the wedding planning process, we realized a simple gathering is more our groove. We've decided to move forward with an elopement style ceremony with local family only. Everyone else will be joining us for an afterparty at Stone (details below)! We can't wait to celebrate with all of you.

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So... what's the plan now?

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Please join us at Stone Brewing World Bistro and Gardens-Escondido (1999 Citracado Parkwy, Escondido, CA 92029) from 4-7pm on November 15, 2025! Please note there will not be a full dinner served, so don't come starving. There will be plenty of appetizer level foods for your enjoyment. And an open bar, of course.

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What's going to happen at this "afterparty"?

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Good question, not much! The whole point of this new plan is for Renee and Cole to spend as much time with every single guest as possible. We want to eat and drink and be merry with everyone, so there will be nothing planned except great food, great beers (and cocktails), and great tunes. We can't wait to simply hang out with all of you. There might even be an after-afterparty.

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please text Renee and/or Cole back at your earliest convenience so they can get this show on the road!

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Is there a dress code?

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Nope, please wear whatever makes you feel comfortable and confident. Bonus points if it's comfortable enough to dance in or makes someone laugh! It's an extremely casual event, but we estimate most people will be in cocktail attire. But if you're feeling a Hawaiian shirt or maybe a ball gown, that's cool with us. Strut your stuff.

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What time should I arrive at Stone Brewing?

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Since it's a short 3 hour party, we recommend getting there at 4pm and staying until 7pm for the most fun. The later you are or the earlier you leave, your loss!

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What's the parking situation at Stone?

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Parking is easy and plentiful in the attached parking lot! If you plan on drinking (ie HEAVY stone beers) please either carpool/have a DD, or uber. We want all loved ones safe and sound that night!

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Are kids welcome?

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While we simply adore all your kiddos, we don't recommend them tagging along. Can't promise any censoring on the music. If this impacts your ability to attend, please let Renee or Cole know and we will work something out with you!

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I have a food allergy, will I be able to eat?

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Of course, we won't let you starve. When you RSVP please callout any allergies or dietary restrictions. Renee or Cole will work things out with you. We're looking at you, Adam.