FAQs

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How can I RSVP?

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Please mail the RSVP card to the address provided on the return envelope. We are not doing an online RSVP.

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Is there a dress code?

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NO JEANS! While you won't need to bring your prom dress and tiara (unless you want to), cocktail attire is recommended. That means a suit and tie or cocktail dress!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony starts at 4:00. Please arrive with ample time so that everything can go according to plan. Aim for 3:30-3:45. I know it's early but that provides the bride, groom, and party time to take pictures while the sun is still out.

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Can I bring a date?

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Clearly if you are invited to the wedding then we love you and want you to share our special day with us. Unfortunately, it was VERY hard cutting the guest list down to our required number and can't accommodate anyone else. If your invitation says, "and guest," then by all means bring your person but this is for those who we know are in serious relationships or won't know anyone else at the wedding.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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There is ample parking at the venue but highly recommend carpooling or Ubering. Your car is also able to stay in the parking lot over night should you get a little too crazy and can't drive.

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Will there be food and drinks served?

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Happy day, the reception will have an open bar so you will not get thirsty, as well as a smorgasbord of food! Please do not bring any outside drinks because then we will get in trouble. I promise there will be plenty and a variety of beers, wines, and liquors for you to enjoy.

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What is going to happen at the reception?

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You’ll get food, watch the bridal party introductions and first dances, cake cutting, dollar dance, more fun, and send off.

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What’s a dollar dance?

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A dollar dance is a time for all the guests to dance with the bride and groom. Guests pay a small amount of money (literally ranges from a dollar on up... whatever you want) to dance with their person of choice for a brief period.

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What will the weather be like?

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Wilmington is on the North Carolina coast. The weather can be fickle and change on a daily basis so who knows that the weather will be like in February 2020. Don't fret! We are going to keep you warm. You will not be outside and can count on feeling nice and cozy!

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What are some fun facts about Wilmington?

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Wilmington is an amazing area to find Venus Flytraps, as they are native to the North Carolina and South Carolina region. BE CAREFUL though because you can get in serious trouble if you try and pick one. We won't bail you out of jail for stealing a plant!