Wedding Party
Anuar Shalash
Father of the Bride
I call him Papichulo, but he'll say I never pick up the phone to even call! There's also a high chance that I will receive edits on the description because that's what he does best. My dad works in education but most of his lessons have been examples of how he lives. Anyone who meets Anuar will know he is always working, wants to ensure all are comfortable, acts professional most of the time, and can be found watching the Hallmark channel around the holidays.
James Snyder
Father of the Groom
My dad has always been a big inspiration in my life. While we may frustrate each other at times because we don't always see eye to eye on things, I still think he's one of the smartest people I know. There are few people on the planet I trust as much as my dad, so if I am ever in need of sound advice he's the person I go to; even if it means running the risk of getting a lecture.
Facunda Shalash
Mother of the Bride
When you run into my mom, that means you're either in the garden, kitchen, or dance floor! Those are the first places my brothers look because my mom isn't "just a phone call away". I have needed her more than ever when I moved out, so I start by calling her voicemail and then my brothers to help me track her down. My mom, like many others, is caring, gentle, and sneaky! I suspect she has figured out how to get me to call her more often by sending recipes that have cliff hangers....smart lady.
Lori Snyder
Mother of the Groom
I have yet to meet someone who doesn't like my mom, it's almost suspicious how many people like her. What is she hiding? Regardless of her shady friendliness she is always the life of the party in the Snyder household. Mom has always been able to find the perfect balance between work and play. Now she might be a bit of a shopaholic, but that just adds to her charm. She will always be my favorite person to go see King Kong movies with.
Carlos Hamdallah Shalash
Man of Honor
He's known as Carlos but I call him Lala. A childhood nickname since I had difficulties with Hamdallah. We don't talk often, but his role as my big brother is the common dynamic of looking up to him, knowing he will always have my back, and a burden to deal with all life questions when he only has 18 months of more experience than me. Carlos is so much more of my go-to person that I didn't hesitate knowing he would stand next to me on the big day. My stubbornness, work ethic, and resilience are all because Lala made it look effortless and pushed me to be better than him.
Noah Centers
Best Man
Me and Noah go way back. We've been running these streets since the second grade. And by running these streets what I mean is pretending to be in Star Wars while our parents were trying to finish work at the high school. Noah has been one of my closest friends for almost as long as I can remember at this point, and while I trust and seek help from all of my friends, anything Noah tells me I always take to heart.
Alexandra Ruvalcaba
Maid of Honor
Alex is my cousin but I felt like I grew up with her as a sister. Thankfully we did not have the fights of who's wearing what clothes because of our different styles and sizes, but we did have some disputes on attire when there was an event. She's always put together and gives me a laugh when she rushes to "freshen up" even around family. If I look like a princess or put together on my big day, give Alex an applause and maybe a shot for putting up with my push back.
John Snyder
Groomsman
John is the best brother I have ever had. He also happens to be the only brother I have, but that doesn't make a difference. Despite being a constant pain in my neck since the year 2000, there's never been a time when I didn't want to hangout with my older brother. Ever since I was little he's been like a super hero to me. When we were still in school it was because of all the girls he would tell me he was talking too (I think he lied about most of them). Now its seeing how committed and happy he is being the husband and Father of his own family.
Abraham Shalash
Bridesman
Chanchito is one of my younger brothers that I was very close to until he became Mr. Popular at school. We were 1 grade level apart and could not have been more opposite. Abraham thrives in a social environment and manages to be a gracious host, so behind the scenes you can guarantee that I tasked him to ensure we have a good time. I am protective of him, as well as my other brothers, but our relationship is special to me because Abraham protects my happiness. He will attend parties, even be the party, and help me escape a party if I am pooped out.
Kevin Butora
Groomsman
Kevin is the first man I call when it is time to get into some mischief. If its one AM and I want some tacos I can always count on Kevin being there to get some tacos with me. If I get some crazy idea like going to a "Knight Practice", I know Kevin will have my back. Kevin is the most laid back of all my friends, nothing ever seems to bother him. If the world was ending around him, he would find a way to make light of the situation and make everyone around him laugh.
Atallah Shalash
Bridesman
The youngest of us is Papas! If you've read my relationship with my other brothers then you would know that I have not mentioned overbearing/protective siblings....well it's because Atallah covers it for the other two. A memory very dear to me is the time I went to my first school dance and got all dolled up. Atallah came into the bathroom as I did my hair and gave me the harshest look of judgement. I was in shock and tried to ignore him, but he sat on the toilet and started to question me. "Why are you brushing your hair? Why are you putting make up?" I was just about to snap but then he asked "Do you have to go?"...Well yeah. (Now I'm in tears, hahaha) We grew up and Atallah is still protective as ever. In May of 2025 he still managed to get our mom to hop in the truck to make sure Joey and I weren't alone!
Cailean Garrett
Groomsman
Cailean is the baby of the friends. Despite only being two years younger than the rest of us, we still all like to act like we adopted him and raised him like four crazy uncles. Because of this Cailean exudes a little bit of the personality of all of us, while still remaining true to himself. If you ever wanted to hear someone ramble for thirty minutes about some obscure topic than Cailean is the man you are looking for. There's not a day that goes by where one of us doesn't tell him to shut up because he's going on another unhinged rant. (Talk to him at your own risk)
Haley Allen
Coordinator
On a girls night out or stay in hangout, Haley is the mom of the group. She always welcomes the group to her place, checks in on everyone, and can be found with snacks on the dancefloor. There is a 95% chance she has goldfish in her bag and doordash ready to take our orders.
Raymond Ellis
Groomsman
Ray, or Roymond Ollis as he is sometimes known, is the most subdued member of the friend group. He's that guy who is always around but never talks much, but when he does it either is gonna make people fall out there seats laughing or leave them so flabbergasted everyone has to take a second to reset. Aside from Noah, Ray is the other one of the friends I have known since elementary school. He's definitely changed a lot from getting me in trouble in 4th grade to now, but he is still one of my best friends.
Raeanna Brezina
Coordinator
Who better to help the girls navigate my large family than my old roomie! Anna and I lived together so she knows my style, attitude, and how I am with family. She's already met quite a few relatives so she knows the drill when it comes to parties.
Kylie Rogers
Coordinator
The girls/coordinators are all attentive and know the importance of the details, but Kylie has a special touch to make something memorable or sentimental. She has experience in customer service so I know she can navigate any situation with a smile whereas I can not.