Kaley & James
Wedding Party
Paige Rhodes
Matron of Honor
Paige and Kaley met at their alma mater, Millikin University and their friendship began through their sorority, Pi Beta Phi. From there, they became roommates, sisters, and best friends. Many remember their shenanigans at Millikin, writing pick-up lines for their fraternity friends, going for Polar Pop runs, imitating Jackie and Debra from Youtube, and so much more. Though they have lived in different states since graduating Millikin, they both make an effort to cross state lines and visit each other to build even more memories. Kaley is so excited to have Paige as her Matron of Honor after serving as Paige's in 2017!
Anthony Roach
Best Man
James met Anthony met soon after James moved to Leavenworth. They were neighbors for a bit and would host poker games, grill out, and watch football. Anthony has two children (Kat and Marco) who are both close to Maclee's age. The three of them would play together when James and Anthony would hang out or take them to go do something on the weekends. Anthony serves in the Army and was stationed in El Paso, TX last spring.
Ashby Engler
Bridesmaid
Ashby and Kaley met each other and began their friendship while at Jefferson City High School. The two competed in cross and country and track together. While not running, they enjoyed saran wrapping their friends cars, 'bear' hunting aka chasing cats, baking animal shaped Christmas cookies, and so much more! Now, they are both teachers and share their crazy fun teaching stories with each other. Kaley is excited to have Ashby share in her day after being Ashby's Maid of Honor in 2018.
Jim Refenes
Groomsman
Jim is James' father and has never been a groomsman at a wedding before. In exchange for in increased inheritance, James has appointed Jim to serve as a groomsman.
Sarah Kuper
Bridesmaid
Sarah and Kaley are cousins, but better known as the MOST athletic gals around. They are experts at defensive holding, practiced through Thanksgiving family football, and beach volleyball, also practiced at family events. Sarah and Kaley enjoy decorating Christmas cookies, playing board games, and watching our favorite college and professional teams. Need any sports advice? You know who to call! ;)
Justin Bode
Groomsman
Justin and James met three years ago when James began coaching wrestling at Leavenworth High School. When James left the middle school to teach at the high school he joined Justin who also taught Biology. The two of them have enjoyed a few "Man Days" the past year which include home improvement projects, throwing back cold ones, and other "Manly" things. Justin's son Blake (8) has become one of Maclee's "funny bunnies" as time has gone on. Currently, Justin and James have embarked on a mission together and are finding time to work out as the big day gets closer and closer. #ShreddingForTheWedding
Leah Refenes
Bridesmaid
Leah is James' youngest sister in the Refenes clan.
Joshua Refenes
Groomsman
James' big brother.
Maclee Refenes
Flower Girl
Maclee is James' daughter and Kaley's crab friend. Maclee and Kaley enjoy pinching James like crabs and meowing like cats every so often. James and Kaley enjoy going to the pool and park with Maclee, putting together Lego cities, and crafting and working on art projects. Maclee and James put on some pretty show-worthy wrestling matches as well! James and Kaley are excited to have Maclee be the flower girl in the wedding!
Joe Sulpizio
Usher
James served as an usher in the wedding between Joe and James' younger sister, Becca. They really just need another tux rental so that they could get a discount for James' tux. Just kidding, Joe is a good guy and will be an excellent selection to fulfill all the Ushery duties.