Wedding Party
Conor Keane
Officiant
Conor is my cousin, though anyone who knows me knows that the Keane boys as a unit are more like brothers to me than cousins. Conor especially felt like a brother to me growing up. Being so close in age meant that all our life milestones aligned. From religious sacraments to graduating High School just twelve hours apart, our biggest moments of our lives have always run simultaneously. I even got to experience a prom with Conor when he accompanied one of my best friends to my junior year prom. Conor's sense of humor is timeless and his kindness is unmatched. To grow up with Conor was a privilege, one that I will cherish forever. When it was time to pick someone to officiate our big day, I told Xavier I wanted to ask Conor, he's been by my side for all my major life events, and I wanted him to be the one to marry us. Without hesitation, Xavier agreed that Conor was the right choice and Conor's genuine happiness and reaction when we asked him really sealed the deal. We couldn't be happier to have Conor putting his wit and his heart into marrying us.
Cooper Josephides
Ring Bearer
From the day he was born Cooper has held a special place in both of our hearts. Full of smiles, this little guy has been such a light and joy in our lives, and we are forever thankful to his parents for allowing us to be such a part of his life, and him a part of ours. To know Coop is to love him, I mean how could you not? The memories we have made with Cooper so far are ones we will cherish forever, and we can't wait to make a lifetime more with him. We couldn't have this special day without him being a part of it.
Bridget Dowling
Maid of Honor
Bridget has been my person for as long as I can remember—my cousin, my best friend since birth, the one who taught me how to laugh without holding back. Growing up with her by my side meant every ordinary day felt like an adventure: she was the spark who turned boredom into mischief, the one who pushed me out of my shell and showed me how much fun life could be. I can still feel her hand steadying mine through the small, messy, and glorious moments that made me who I am. She’s the fun one, yes, but she’s also razor-sharp and endlessly brave in her honesty—smart, funny, and unapologetically herself. She’s protected me more times than I can count, stood up for me when I couldn’t, and knows me better than anyone. Her love is fierce and uncomplicated, and it’s been my anchor through everything. If I had to pick a word for what she means to me, it would be balance—the yin to my yang. Where I wobble, she steadies; where I overthink, she reminds me to play. I can’t imagine walking down the aisle without her there beside me, not just as my maid of honor but as the person who has walked every step of my life with me. I love her with my whole heart, and having her by my side is the greatest gift I could ask for.
Ryan Flaherty
Best Man
I met Ryan when we started dispatching together at QV, a regional 911 dispatch center in Killingly, CT. Quickly we became close through our shared love of the fire service and a similar progressive mindset of being able to change anything for the better while applying common sense to help the most amount of people possible. Additionally, Ryan is always a voice of reason and willing to help out no matter the time or day. Sometimes this means hours spent on the phone figuring out how we're going to fix the Eastern CT fire service but we wouldn't have it any other way. Outside of the fire service Ryan always leads by example demonstrating a great moral compass and compassion that is unmatched. He always re-arranges his schedule to help others out and never holds back from telling people what they need to hear at the most important times. Ryan is an example of the type of person we should all strive to be more like and realize that life isn't that serious. At the end of the day the way you treat people and the friends you make along the way are what matters most.
Gianna Harrelle
Bridesmaid
Gianna Rose, the sister I always wanted. Gianna was only 10 years old when Xavier and I met. What began as a sweet bond with a little girl has grown into a friendship filled with laughter, inside jokes, and unwavering support. Having Gianna in my life has been one of my greatest blessings. G is my biggest fan and most loyal supporter, emphatically announcing "Beckyyy!!" every time I walk through the door. Gianna's presence has encouraged me to always put forward the best version of myself, and has challenged me to be a better role model. Watching G grow up over the past few years has been a reminder at just how quickly life goes by but has also been one of the most wonderful things to watch. Gianna is smart, funny, and beautiful but my favorite quality of hers is her moral compass. She is never afraid to do the right thing and stand up for herself and others and I will always admire that. I cannot wait to see where this life takes her, and I am forever grateful to have Gianna as my sister.
Ryan Kelleher
Groomsman
Ryan & I met when I joined the volunteer fire department as a junior member (14 years old). Throughout the many years that followed Ryan was always willing to help teach a young kid not only about the fire service and serve as a mentor on numerous emergency scene's but also serving as an equal mentor at life in general through his amazing ability to balance work and home life while raising a happy and successful family. Ryan encouraged me to apply to West Hartford FD in 2021 and continues to be an amazing friend and even better role model on a daily basis, frequently offering his invaluable life experience in areas that I need it most, which I'm always grateful for. Ryan provides an awesome balance of laughs, work, fun and maturity all tied together. He is easy to talk to but not afraid to provide reasonable perspective at the same time. When tough decisions need to be made he is always the person who can provide the best insight for both sides of a situation without hesitation or struggle, all the while maintaining composure and calmness.
Michelle Josephides
Bridesmaid
I saw a quote recently that read "We got so close so fast because I never once had to ask her to be a good friend" and I thought that sums up my friendship with Michelle perfectly. More than a coworker, more than an almost-neighbor, Michelle is truly someone I believe the universe put in my path for a reason. Miche has my back, always and from day one. She's the kind of person will stand up for you in a room full of people but tell you the straight truth when you need to hear it alone. No sugarcoating, no fluff, no BS--that honesty is one of things I love the most about her. Michelle is stronger than anyone I know. She carries herself in a way that commands respect but has a real and true heart of gold. Watching her become a mom has been one of the greatest joys of my life, and I can only hope to be half as good of a mom as she is one day. I look up to her more than she probably knows. Her loyalty, sense of humor, and the way she protects the people she loves are unmatched and I am beyond lucky to have her in my life, and to be allowed in hers. I am forever grateful to have met Michelle and will never take that for granted.
Matt Parizo
Groomsman
I met Matt in college while we were both earning our undergraduate degrees from Anna Maria College. After completing that we went onto to both get our Master’s in Public Administration from AMC and later became career firefighters in our own departments. As we collaboratively tried to figure how to be adjunct instructors at a college just a quick 1 year after getting our MPA’s, our friendship grew even more by teaching the same classes and making the same long drive up to the college multiple days a week. During this time, we also served as the chaperone’s together for a fire department conference in Indianapolis for a week every April, quickly we got a glimpse of what parenting was like while trying to corral young adults across an entire city. We still stay in touch regularly and brainstorm different investments and get rich quick opportunities that could be on the horizon. More to come on that..
Amy Corliss
Bridesmaid
I met Amy only a few years ago, but from the moment I did, it was like I had known her forever. Friendship with Amy is effortless, she has a rare kind of warmth that draws you in and makes you feel instantly safe and understood. Amy lights up every room she walks into--not because she demands attention but because her kindness pours off of her and her presence is steady, bright, and full of joy. Amy always sees the best in people and shows up wholeheartedly for the people she cares about. To be able to call her a friend is a privilege and an honor, one that I will never take for granted. I was lucky enough to stand by Amy on her wedding day, and I am blessed to have her next to me on mine.
"Love is in the Details" Team
Laura, Maura, Cathy, Julia, Karen
Though these fabulous ladies are not officially part of our bridal party, our big day would not come together without them. We wanted to give special recognition to Auntie Laura, Auntie Maura, Auntie Cathy, and Auntie Karen for their unwavering support and love and their assistance with our day-of details like decor, centerpieces, and final touches. A special thanks to Julia for getting Kelly ready and feeling her best. We are incredibly thankful for our people <3