The moment I saw him swimming butterfly I knew I had to get to know my hot swimming instructor. I had decided to do a triathlon as part of my impending midlife crisis. All of the women in the class constantly talked about how nice Romulus was. I began practicing on Mondays so I would run into him and he would give me swimming advice. The clincher was when he sent me a message that I was a great mom and wishing me a Happy Mother's Day. I was touched and immediately texted back and we have been talking nonstop ever since.