If you plan on flying Charlotte Airport will have the most direct flights coming into North Carolina, it is about 2 hours outside of Winston Salem. You can also check Greensboro PTI airport for flights, it is located just about an hour outside of Winston Salem.
The hotel is about 12 mins by car and there is a target and multiple restaurants by the hotel.
Park at the pool house parking lot down the street. The signs will point you to the parking lot. Transportation will be provided to venue.
Yes after the wedding will be a cocktail hour and reception to follow at the same venue.
The days will be warm but not hot. The evening will get cool when the sun starts to go down.