FAQs

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How can I RSVP?

Answer

RSVP either here or by sending in the paper reply card you received with your invitation. Please do so no later than December 1, 2017. If you are RSVPing online, you have to enter each individual guest's name to RSVP on their behalf.

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Do I need to RSVP online if I sent in the little card? Do I need to send in the little card if I RSVP'd online?

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No. We enabled the online RSVP option in case that is easier for some folks. So use whichever option is easier for you -- there is no need to use both.

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Can I bring a date?

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Yes! Even if it's kind of a last-minute addition. Just let us know no later than a week before the wedding.

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Do I need to bring a date?

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No! Do whatever makes you happy.

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Are kids welcome?

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Yes! We expect that there might be between 10 to 20 kids in attendance (including our own). There's a kids menu available, and we'll provide some games and activities for them, as well. Depending on the numbers, we may even provide a babysitter to entertain them in the adjacent room (they'll always be within sight). That said, we do expect the party to go to about 10 o'clock, and to spread out the evening (that is, dinner will not end at 7). So use your best judgment.

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We're bringing the kids to Portland, but would rather leave them with a babysitter for the night. Do you have suggestions for babysitters?

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Yes! But we're still working on the details. Stay tuned!

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We RSVPed on time, but now it turns out that my (hypothetical) spouse has a work thing that absolutely can't be missed, and my (hypothetical) kid's new best friend's birthday is the same day. How do we change the RSVP?

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We'd be sad to miss your hypothetical spouse and hypothetical child, and we hope you'll still come, but should this happen, please shoot us an email at pyatkevich@lclark.edu and let us know of the updated plans. Please do so by December 10, 2017.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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For the ceremony, there is a dedicated parking lot. For the reception, the hotel is right downtown, so parking is harder. On a Sunday evening, however, street parking should be not difficult. There are a number of affordable parking lots/garages in the area. The Sentinel does have its own parking, but that will be your costliest option, if you choose it.

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What does "formal" or "black tie optional" attire actually mean?

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It's a special day for us, so we want everyone to get a little dressed up. But we also want our guests to be comfortable in their skin, and to feel beautiful/handsome. So, here's what we suggest: for guys: a suit and tie, or jacket and nice shirt for ladies: a cocktail dress; short is fine, long if you want to go glam (Rebecca approves of all glam). Or a nice pantsuit if that's more your style. Will we be horribly offended if you're a person that never wears a suit jacket? Or if you decide to wear neon green pants paired with a corduroy orange jacket? Or if it's raining buckets and a dress and heels just no longer sounds appealing? No. As long as you're comfortable and having fun, go right ahead.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes, please let us know! We'll do our best to accommodate. Email Rebecca: pyatkevich@lclark.edu