FAQs

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What should I expect at the event?

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We will be married in a private ceremony the day before. This event is a celebration with our family and friends! Join us for a reception featuring an open bar, plated dinner, and cake as we celebrate together.

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by Saturday August 22nd 2026.

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Dress Code & Theme

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We’re putting a fun twist on formal attire! Think classic wedding looks—suits, dresses, jumpsuits, gowns—but with personality. Bold colors, playful patterns, statement accessories, and unique details are all encouraged. We are keeping things traditionally bridal—so we kindly ask guests to avoid wearing white. Instead, we’d love to see vibrant colors and expressive styles! Feel free to mix elegance with creativity—whether that’s a sharp suit with funky shoes or a formal dress with a pop of sparkle. Most importantly, wear something that feels like you and gets you ready to celebrate in style

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What time should I arrive?

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We recommend arriving by 6:00 PM so you don’t miss the start of dinner!

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Is there parking available?

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Yes, free parking will be available. That said, we highly encourage using rideshare services like Uber or Lyft so everyone can enjoy the evening safely and stress-free.

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Are there nearby accommodations?

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For your convenience, we’ve included several nearby hotel options for your stay in Tulsa. We recommend the following: -The Brut Hotel Located in a desirable area of Tulsa, this hotel is also quite close to The Vault and offers free parking. -Tulsa Club Hotel, Curio Collection by Hilton This is the closest hotel to The Vault, making it a very convenient option for your stay. Each of these hotels offers comfortable accommodations and easy access to the wedding venue and local attractions. We encourage you to book early to secure your preferred option.

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Are you registered? Where?

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Your presence at our celebration is truly the greatest gift! We are not registered. However, if you feel inclined, we have set up a honeymoon fund that you’re welcome to contribute to.