FAQs

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How and when should I RSVP?

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To RSVP, please click the RSVP tab here on our website and type in your name. All invited guests in your party will appear to mark as “will attend” or “will not attend”. Please RSVP no later than April 1st. If you do not RSVP by April 1st, we will mark "will not attend" for you. Unfortunately, we will not be able to accommodate late RSVPs. We will miss you celebrating with us!

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Can I bring a date?

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Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one, your guest's name will appear under your name when you RSVP. Otherwise, we would love to keep the wedding as an intimate event with close friends and family. Thank you for understanding!

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Are kids welcome?

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We love your little ones! However, we have decided to keep our wedding primarily an adult-only event. Invitations will be specific and include the names of the children who are invited. We are excited for you to have a "weekend away" and celebrate with us!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony will begin punctually at 5 o’clock in the afternoon. We recommend guests arrive between 4:30-4:40pm so there is time for you to mingle and find your seat. If you happen to be late, please join us during cocktail hour!

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Can I take photos or videos during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask that your phones/devices are put away and turned off/silent during the ceremony. We have hired our photographer and videographer to capture the most important moments of our lives and we would hate to have a well-meaning person’s phone/device blocking that moment for them to capture. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos as you want!

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Is there parking available?

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Yes! There is a gravel parking lot to the left of The Victorian (if you are facing the front of the venue). There is additional parking in the back of the lot to the right next to HomeSlice Tavern.

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes! We would love to see our friends and family get fancy with us! Our dress code is Formal or Black Tie optional. Ladies can wear floor-length, tea-length, or midi formal dresses. Gentlemen can wear a suit & tie or tuxedo. Ladies, please refrain from wearing white, creams, ivory, or champagne tones. Please no neon colors or jeans. For inspiration, please take a look at our Pinterest board. :) To view, highlight the link and select “Open Link”. https://pin.it/4qHyX4vFd

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How does seating work?

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The ceremony will be open seating so sit wherever you please! However, we are requesting you avoid the first 3 rows for the bridal party and immediate family. For the reception, we will be carefully arranging tables so our guests are sat with those they know. Vendors will likely be sitting among you, as we will be seating them where available.

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Will the wedding take place indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony will take place outdoors (weather permitting) on the lawn behind The Victorian. After you park, follow the sidewalk behind the tent that leads you straight to it! Once the ceremony concludes, you will be escorted to the front porch and inside The Victorian for cocktail hour. There will be a bar on the porch along with many activities scattered throughout. Make sure you check them out! The reception will be under a tent behind The Victorian where we will enjoy our buffet style dinner and dancing to follow!

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Will there be a bar?

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Drinks are on us! Hangover on you! We recommend to carpool and have a DD if you plan to drink! However, if your whole party wants to paint the town red with us, Uber and Lyft are also readily available in the area!