When it's right, it's right! We both had cordially said "Hi" in passing, but never REALLY knew each other! One day a friend suggested, " You should talk to Randy" , during a random conversation about wanting more in relationship. Who would have guessed that a few weeks later, I would receive message from Randy! That message began a conversation that lead to random plan to get pedicures! Neither of us were ready to end the outing, so we moved to lunch! Hours later, we still weren't ready to end the day! We both felt something different! The more we spent time together, the more it made sense that this is what's been missing! Everything we've been through has brought us together, in this moment!