We recommend arriving about 15–30 minutes before the ceremony begins.
Our celebration will begin with the ceremony at 4:00pm and continue through the evening with dinner, dancing, and plenty of laughter. While the formal festivities are expected to wrap up around 10:00 PM, guests are welcome to continue the fun in the city with us.
Yes! Both events will take place at Brick and Bower, so you can stay comfortable and fully immerse yourself in the festivities.
There are several paid public parking lots near the venue, and there is also a dedicated parking structure available for $25 per car. (You can find a QR code to prepay for parking on our travel page.) To make the evening as easy and fun as possible, we highly recommend using rideshares like Uber or Lyft when you can—so everyone can relax, celebrate, and fully enjoy the night. Our biggest wish is for you to simply soak in the love and have the best time!
We’re so grateful you’ll be celebrating with us. Due to limited space, our wedding is adults-only / limited to those listed on the invitation. We appreciate your understanding and can’t wait to share the day with you.
Our special day calls for formal attire, so feel free to dress up and shine. Suits, ties, tuxedos, formal dresses, and elegant cocktail dresses are all welcome. We are going for a timeless, elegant look for the evening, and guests are encouraged to choose polished, formal styles. We can’t wait to see everyone looking their best as we celebrate this unforgettable day together.
Absolutely! Our venue is connected to a charming boutique hotel — you can find more details on booking on our Travel page. There are also plenty of other wonderful hotels, boutique stays, and vacation rentals throughout/near downtown San Diego, giving you lots of options to find the perfect place to stay while celebrating with us.
Having you celebrate with us is the greatest gift of all. If you’d like to honor us with a gift, you can visit our registry here: https://www.zola.com/wedding/rayandbella2026/registry . Your love and support mean the world to us, and that’s what we’ll cherish most.