FAQs

Question

I don't know if I'm happy about this wedding...

Answer

If you have any question about your support for the brides' union, please stay home. This is a day of joyous celebration - if you do not feel equipped to fuel that joy, we kindly ask that you stay away from the brides on their big day.

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Can I bring my child?

Answer

We are allotting limited invitations for children. Please understand that not every child can come. Children who attend the wedding need to be explicitly invited by the brides. If your child is not invited (or if you'd rather leave them at home), we encourage you to use this time as an opportunity to be completely present with us and enjoy your getaway!

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What should I wear?

Answer

We would like guests to dress within the given color scheme. You will stand out if you don't. We have included a variety of colors and don't anticipate that you should have to buy something new (unless you want to). Otherwise, come dressed to impress!

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I have food allergies or dietary restrictions. Will there be things for me to eat?

Answer

If you properly list out your allergies when you RSVP, we will do our best to accommodate you. Food will be offered family style, allowing you to pick and choose what options work best for you, and any relevant allergies will be listed on the menu for your reference. We have done our best to pick a variety of choices, but we may reach out if it seems like you will need a separate meal.

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Bodega Bay is kind of far from major airports. What if I don't have a car?

Answer

When you RSVP, you will be asked to note whether you have a car and are willing to offer a ride, or whether you would like a ride. We cannot guarantee a carpool for everyone that needs it, but we will do our best to help you get there and back should you ask for it!

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I have a tendency to be late...

Answer

Please be there at the start time. It's our party, we will start without you.

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How long can we party?

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We are required to stop all amplified sound at 10pm. You are welcome to keep the party going, but we kindly ask that you respect this curfew and take your party elsewhere.