FAQs
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What should I wear to the events?
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For most events, colorful and festive outfits are encouraged! At the Anand Karaj (wedding ceremony at the gurdwara), please wear modest clothing that covers shoulders and knees. Women usually wear suits, lehengas, or sarees, and men often wear kurta pajamas or formal suits. Everyone is welcome to wear what they feel comfortable in. Please also bring a scarf or head covering for the gurdwara ceremony.
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Are kids welcome?
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Absolutely, kids are a cherished part of our celebrations and are welcome at all events. During the Anand Karaj, we kindly ask that young children be taken to the upstairs viewing room in the gurdwara rather than the main hall. This space is designed for families so little ones can move around or make noise without disrupting the ceremony, and parents won’t miss a moment of what’s happening.
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Will food be served?
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Yes! All events will have delicious vegetarian meals. The langar (community meal) at the gurdwara is fully vegetarian. Other events, like the sangeet and reception, will also have a wide variety of vegetarian and non-vegetarian Punjabi dishes and desserts.
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What time should I arrive for the Anand Karaj (wedding ceremony)?
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Please arrive at least 20–30 minutes early to allow time to park, cover your head, and be seated before the ceremony begins.
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Do I need to bring a gift?
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Your presence is the greatest gift! If you would like to give, traditional options include cards with blessings, monetary gifts (shagun), or something small and thoughtful. Please don’t feel obligated.
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Where can I park on the day of the wedding?
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Gurdwaras usually have plenty of space, but we recommend carpooling when possible.
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Can I bring a plus-one?
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If your invitation included a guest, please RSVP for them as well. If you’re unsure, kindly reach out to us before bringing an additional guest.
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What’s the difference between the various events?
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Haldi / Chooda / Shagan/Mehndi: These are smaller, traditional pre-wedding rituals that are intimate family events. They are not necessarily meant for the attendance of everyone invited to the larger celebrations. Sangeet: A colorful pre-wedding party with music, dancing, and lots of fun for family and friends. Anand Karaj: The Sikh wedding ceremony held in the gurdwara. Reception: The big post-wedding celebration with dinner, dancing, and joy!