FAQs

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Are children welcome?

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As much as we would love to invite all of our family and friends' children to our wedding, we are only able to accommodate a few close family and friends' children as we both come from large families! If your invite on the RSVP link does not list your children's names, we respectfully request you make arrangements for them and hope you can still make our special day! Thank you for your understanding, we cannot wait to celebrate with you!

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Do I have to come to the pre-wedding party if I don't plan on staying?

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We will be absolutely thrilled for you to join us at the pre-wedding party; however, please do not feel obligated if you do not plan to stay either or both nights. The main event is on Sunday!

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What is the required etiquette when entering a Sikh Gurudwara?

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Prior to entering the Gurudwara (Sikh place of worship), everyone will be required to cover their heads. For gentlemen/boys attending, we will provide an appropriate head covering. Ladies/girls, please ensure you bring a light scarf. Upon entering the Gurduwara, please remove your shoes at the designated shoe area. As you enter the main hall, proceed towards the Guru Granth Sahib, which is placed at the front-center of the hall. There, a small donation is welcome ($1) as you bow to the Guru Granth Sahib. You will sit on the floor (ladies on the left and gentlemen on the right side of the aisle) facing the Guru Granth Sahib and accept parshad (blessed food offerings) at the end of the ceremony. Modest clothing is recommended out of respect for the religion. A few chairs will be prioritized for the elderly and those with physical disabilities who are unable to sit on the floor. Please Note: Consumption of alcohol and tobacco is strictly prohibited before entering or within the grounds of the Gurudwara.

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What is the Sikh ceremony schedule, and what does each mean?

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The Sikh wedding customs begin with the grand entry of the Baraat (groom's processional) at the Gurudwara at 11am, where the groom and his family will be greeted by the brides family. The reception of the Baraat is then blessed by a Giani (Sikh priest) with an Ardaas (prayer). * Please cover your heads for this prayer. Upon completion of the prayer, a Milni (union of families) takes place between designated respective members of the bride and grooms family. From here, everyone will proceed to the entrance where the groom will be met by his new sisters-in-law who will tease him and ask for money to enter the Gurudwara and marry his bride. Following payment, the groom, family and friends will be welcomed into the Gurdwara for breakfast and refreshments. The Sikh Ceremony The Anand Karaj (Blissful Union) will take place in the main hall, where guests will bow to the Guru Granth Sahib and proceed to take their seats. A prayer will then be read for the Anand Karaj to begin. The bride and groom walk around the Guru Granth Sahib four times, known as the four Laavan. Each Laav describes a different spiritual stage of married life, which represents the fusing of the soul of the bride and groom into one conscious being who is subsequently wedded to God in spiritual union.

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What should I wear?

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Modest clothing is recommended for the Sikh ceremony. Ladies, if dresses are worn, please ensure they are long enough, or bring a pair of leggings as you will be sat on the floor. For head coverings, ladies are required to bring a light shawl; gentlemen will have an appropriate head covering provided. For the Vow ceremony and Reception, the dress-code is semi-formal. Green has been reserved for the bridesmaids for anyone wondering.

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Is the Vow ceremony outdoors?

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Weather permitting, the Vow ceremony will be held outside. The Cocktail Hour will mostly be indoors and on a patio, and the Reception will be indoors.

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Is transportation provided between venues?

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Yes! shuttle buses from the hotels will be arranged to transport out guests to and from venues. A detailed itinerary including bus times will be shared when you check-in to your hotel.

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How late do the events go?

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The Pre-Wedding party (8/29) is from 6:30p-10:30p. The Wedding Reception will end around 11p and is followed by an Afterparty that will go until 1a for those who wish to keep the party going!

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When should I RSVP by?

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In order for us to provide our venue with final numbers, please RSVP by June 1. If we do not hear from you by June 1, we will assume you are unable to attend and will miss you!

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Who should I call if I still have questions?

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Call either the bride or groom if you have additional questions! Raj - 269-858-8491 Alec - 845-370-2096