We love your kids---- we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off.
If your invitation says "AND GUEST" then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
NAVY BLUE! Attire is formal but we discourage the ladies from wearing stilettos since it will be a garden reception. Ladies can wear long dress or cocktail dress and Gents may wear a suit or long sleeves with slacks.