It wasn't supposed to happen, but it did. I was looking this way and he was looking that way. Then BAM! he kissed me. For those of you who haven't felt it, you can tell everything in a first kiss, it's electric. The charge will shock your soul.
He kept joking, "you'll have to ask me." So I would reply, "Don't hold your breath." Maybe the timing could have been better but something had awakened in me that was too hard to ignore. I asked Rainey to marry me, he said yes. I immediately made a caveat, "Not right away, let's spend the next year or so making sure." Now, we're sure.