FAQs

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How do I RSVP?

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You can RSVP on our wedding website. The RSVP tab will open from August 1, 2024, to September 30, 2024. If we don't hear back from you by September 30th, we will assume you cannot attend. Entrée selections are made when you RSVP online.

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When should I RSVP by?

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The RSVP deadline is September 30th, 2024. If we don't hear back from you by September 30th, we will assume you cannot attend.

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What are the entree options?

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Sirloin Steak Sirloin Steak with a Grain Mustard Demi-Glaze served with Mashed Potatoes and Broccoli. Chicken Marsala Sautéed Chicken Cutlets with Wild Mushrooms and a Sweet Marsala Sauce served with Linguine and Broccoli Rabe. Crispy Massaman Tofu Curry Crispy Pan-Fried Tofu, Vegetables, and Sweet Potatoes simmered in a Peanut Thai Spiced Curry accompanied by Pineapple Salsa and Scallion Rice.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes. When you submit your RSVP online, there will be a section for you to enter any dietary restrictions.

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes, we invite you to join us for a formal affair. Please dress to impress in your finest attire. We ask that men wear a dark suit and tie and women wear an evening gown or midi-length cocktail dress. In an effort to make everyone feel a part of the wedding, we are kindly asking guests to wear jewel tones. Think of dark, rich colors you would see in a stained glass window. Examples include: navy blue, plum purple, burgundy red, dark pink, dark teal, forest green, burnt orange, butterscotch yellow, etc. For a visual aid, Google image search "Jewel Tone Palette."

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Guests can arrive 15 minutes before the ceremony starts at 4:00 PM. The ceremony will promptly start at 4:15 PM.

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Is there going to be traffic?

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Yes! We are getting married one town over from Salem, MA, on the last weekend in October. Traffic is inevitable, and bumper-to-bumper traffic is expected due to tourists and the normal rush hour. We STRONGLY urge guests to account for additional travel time to the venue. If you plan to use a ride-share app like Lyft or Uber, we recommend scheduling your ride ahead of time. Again, accounting for the extra travel time needed due to traffic.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes. There is a small parking lot to the right of Tupper Manor and an additional lot around the bend in front of the Wylie Inn. There is also an overflow lot across the street if needed.

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Do you have a hotel block?

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Yes. Please go to the "Accommodation & Travel" tab of our wedding website to find out more.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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Right now, no, but stay tuned.

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Are you registered? Where?

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To save you from shopping, sit back and rest, a gift of currency is our request. Don't go overboard and rob any banks, any little thing will make us smile with thanks. Now that we have saved you all the fuss, it would be appreciated if you would come celebrate with us! Please go to the "Registry" tab of our wedding website to learn more.

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Can I bring a date?

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We are not extending plus ones at this time. If your partner is invited their name will be included on your Save the Date and Formal Invitation.

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Are kids welcome?

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To allow all wedding guests, including parents, a night of relaxation without having to worry about little eyes and ears, we politely request no children.