Yes, we are providing valet parking. Please tell the attendant you are with the Berkowitz Friedman wedding.
Whether this is your first Orthodox Jewish wedding or one of many, we want every guest to feel welcomed, comfortable, and included. The evening will be filled with meaningful traditions, joyful celebrations, and plenty of guidance along the way! Simply come ready to celebrate, and feel free to follow along and enjoy the experience with us. If some of the customs are new to you, don’t worry! The joy, music, dancing, and love are universal.
We kindly ask guests to dress in formal or black tie attire. Orthodox guests will be dressed modestly. For non-orthodox guests; men can be in tuxedos or dark suits (black, navy, or charcoal grey) with bow ties or neck ties. Women can wear formal floor length dresses or gowns.
Married Orthodox women cover their hair, but non-Orthodox women are not expected to. Men will be offered kippahs (skullcap), which will be available at the welcome table. Both Jewish and non-Jewish males can wear a kippah.
Yes, the ceremony will have separate seating for men and women, which is a traditional practice in Orthodox Judaism.
The ceremony includes blessings, the giving of a ring, the reading of the ketubah (marriage contract), and ends with the groom breaking a glass—followed by a big “Mazel Tov!”
Dancing will be separate for men and women, which is part of Orthodox tradition—but don’t worry, both sides are equally fun and energetic!
Jump in! Guests are encouraged to join—people will happily guide you. It’s all about joy and celebrating together.
Yes! All food and drink will be strictly kosher, meaning it follows Jewish dietary laws. This includes no mixing of meat and dairy and food prepared under rabbinical supervision.
Absolutely! When you R.S.V.P. you will be given a choice of a beef, fish, or vegetarian entree. We will also offer vegetarian selections during cocktail hour.
In Orthodox Jewish tradition, men and women who are not married to each other typically do not have physical contact. This means that guests of the opposite sex should avoid handshakes, hugs, or other physical touch with the bride or groom. Please don’t worry—warm smiles, kind words, and enthusiastic “Mazel Tov!” wishes are more than perfect and deeply appreciated!
That’s completely okay! We’re so happy you’re celebrating with us. Just follow along, enjoy the experience, and don’t hesitate to ask someone nearby if you’re unsure.