No. You can wear whatever you want, you're not the ones getting married.
No, sorry. We want to keep our wedding intimate, with only the people we care about.
No, we will have a couple vans to drive everyone from place to place. You are welcome to rent your own car if you want to go holoholo between wedding activities.
Just your flight to Kaua'i and back. Everything else is covered.
No, but why wouldn't you?
Please RSVP before March 1st.