We love your kids, we really do! But we want our wedding to be your night off! If you need recommendations of babysitters in the area we can definitely provide you with some.
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
Cocktail, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.