Q + A

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What time should we arrive?

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The ceremony begins at 5:00 PM. Please plan to arrive 20–30 minutes early to get seated before the ceremony begins.

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What is the dress code?

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We would love to see our family and friends get dressed up with us! We kindly request a semi-formal dress code for our wedding with a touch of summer elegance. No jeans please!

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Are there any colors guests should avoid wearing?

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Yes, please avoid wearing white, ivory, champagne, or creams — those are reserved for the bride. Everything else is perfectly fine!

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Can I bring a plus one?

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We can only accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one, your guest's name is listed on your invitation and will appear under your name when you RSVP. Otherwise, we would love to keep our wedding intimate with our closest family and friends. Thank you for understanding!

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Are kids welcome?

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While we love your little ones, we are asking guests to refrain from bringing kids unless otherwise stated on the invitation. We are hoping this is a much deserved night off for the parents!

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Where should we park?

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There is a designated parking area with plenty of spots on the property.

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Should we expect an indoor or outdoor event?

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We’re blending both! Our ceremony will be outdoors under a covered pavilion with a lovely breeze — the perfect summer setting. For the reception, we’ll head indoors where there’s air-conditioning waiting for you!

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Can I take pictures?

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We are having an "unplugged ceremony" (no phones or cameras). The greatest gift you can give us is being fully present as we say "I do". We have hired professionals to capture this moment for us and we promise to share our photos as soon as we recieve them. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you would like!

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Can we post photos online?

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We kindly ask that you wait until the day after to post. And if you do, please tag us with #IsntSheLemley — we’d love to see them!

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What should I do if I cannot make it?

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You will be missed! If you cannot attend our wedding, please indicate your regrets on our RSVP tab so we can plan accordingly.

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Where should I stay?

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Please check out the "Travel" page on our site for more information on hotel room blocks.

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Where are you registered?

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Your presence is the best gift! But if you would like to send something, we are registered at Amazon and Zola - you can find it on the "Registry" page.

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Will there be a bar?

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Yes! The drinks are on us, and the hangover is on you - please drink responsibly!