Our wedding will be at the Brut Hotel in Tulsa, Oklahoma on Saturday, October 11, 2025.
* 4:30 PM – Pre-ceremony cocktail hour * 5:15 PM – Ceremony begins (please be seated by 5:10 PM) * 6:00 PM – Dinner & reception to celebrate
Yes. While we love your little ones, our celebration is adults only so everyone can relax and enjoy the evening. Thank you for understanding!
We’re so excited to celebrate with each of you! If you’ve been given a plus-one, you’ll see their name (or “+1”) when you RSVP. If you don’t see that option, it just means we’d love for you to join us solo. Either way, you’ll have great company, plenty of dancing, and lots of dessert waiting for you!
Formal cocktail attire. Think elevated cocktail party: suits or jackets, cocktail dresses, or other festive evening wear.
Yes! The cocktail hour, ceremony, and reception are all at the Brut Hotel—no travel between venues needed.
Yes, the Brut Hotel offers valet and self-parking. Ride-shares or carpooling are also great options.
Brut Hotel is the best option for our guests, and we have reserved a block of rooms there for the wedding. Details on how to book your room are available on the accommodations page of our site.
Yes—cocktails, a full dinner, and dessert. Come hungry and ready to celebrate!
The welcome party will be a chance to relax, mingle, and enjoy drinks together before the big day. While there won’t be a meal served, we encourage you to grab dinner beforehand and then join us for a fun evening of celebration!