As of right now no, but this may change. We will keep you up to date. But if you are more comfortable wearing a mask you are more than welcome to.
We love your kids. But if they are not listed on your invitation we would prefer them left at home.
If your invitation says "and guest" then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
Dressy Casual. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.