Plot Twist: We Eloped No registry blenders, no formal china — just love, gratitude, and giving back. Our priority is supporting the Red Cross in honor of Denise Abbott, whose compassion and care made an immeasurable difference to our family during a time of loss. Paying that kindness forward feels like the perfect way to celebrate. If you’d also like to contribute to our travel fund as we start this next chapter, we’d be so grateful — but truly, your love and support (and just showing up) means everything to us.