FAQs

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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Please RSVP by Wednesday, March 10, 2027.

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What is the dress code?

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The dress code is Black-Tie Preferred. We'd love our friends and family to dress to the nines for our special event! We encourage guests to dress in formal evening attire to help create an elegant atmosphere. For gentlemen, this may include a tuxedo, black suit, or formal dark suit with a tie or bow tie. For ladies, floor-length gowns, formal cocktail dresses, or elegant evening attire are all wonderful choices.

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Where are you registered?

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Your presence is the greatest gift. We also have gift registries with Zola, Amazon, and Anthropologie. All linked registries can be found under the "Registry" tab of this website.

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Can I bring a guest?

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We are only able to accommodate guests listed on your invitation. If a plus one has been reserved for you, it will be indicated on your invitation. Thank you for your understanding.

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Are children invited?

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While we love your little ones, our wedding will be adults-only.

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask guests to refrain from taking photos during the ceremony. We want everyone to be present in the moment. We trust our photographer to capture the memories!

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes, there will be an open bar with top-shelf offerings.

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Are there vegetarian, vegan, or gluten-free meal options?

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Yes. There will be a beef, poultry, or vegetarian option for entrées at the reception. Please indicate any dietary restrictions when you RSVP, and we will do our best to accommodate them.

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What accommodations are available nearby?

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We have reserved a room block at The Watergate Hotel. Booking information is available under the Travel tab on this website. As the wedding is located in Downtown Washington, D.C., there are numerous nearby accommodations.

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Is transportation provided?

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No. There is no need for transportation as the rehearsal dinner, ceremony, and reception will all be held at The Watergate Hotel.

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Who should I contact with questions?

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Please contact any of the following people if you have any questions before the wedding. Bride: Rachel Strieber (757-753-6157) Groom: Brendan Vander Vliet (201-449-6896) Maid of Honor: Emily Ciardiello (240-466-2535) Matron of Honor: Marina Lawrence (410-615-1105) Best Man: Thomas Vander Vliet (551-804-2397)

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Where are you going for your honeymoon?

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We're planning a trip to France and Ireland after the wedding!