FAQs

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes, we would love to see our family and friends get dressed up with us so we are requesting semi-formal attire. The photo above shows some outfit inspirations as well as our optional color palette for the wedding. • Dresses & Pantsuits - any length, style, fabric, and silhouette will be perfect! ⭐️ Wear whatever color you like but please do not wear white, pale colors that look white, or pale nude pink • Dress Pants with Button Down Shirt & Suits - Feel free to have fun with your outfit and accessories (jackets, ties, and bow ties are optional and are not required). ⭐️ Please no jeans and/or polo shirts. ⭐️ Our ceremony will be outside so please bring comfy shoes to walk and stand in. Also please keep in mind the property has a rock and dirt terrain. Make sure to bring some dancing shoes that are comfy too :)

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Where will wedding updates be posted?

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Updates and changes in plans will be posted on this website. If you have any questions please contact Melanie, the day of coordinator, at (405) 385-2050

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I can't make it, what should I do?

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If you cannot make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and select "Will Not Attend" on your RSVP so we can plan accordingly. If you have already RSVP'd "Attending" but find that you will not make it, please notify Lisa at (580) 461-3205.

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How do I RSPV

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To RSVP, click the RSVP tab above and type the name(s) listed on your invitation. If you're responding for you and a guest you'll be able to RSVP for them as well. Please mark each event you will attend with the "Will Be Attending" button.

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When do I need to RSVP by?

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Please RSVP as soon as possible or before Friday, September 12th, 2025. Any RSVPs received after this date will be marked as a 'no' as we will be sending final headcounts to vendors shortly after this deadline.

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Where should I stay in Broken Bow?

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We thank you wholeheartedly for traveling to celebrate with us! Please visit our "Venue & Traveling Info" tab at the top of the page for the Hotel and Airbnbs we recommend for our guests.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Due to the venue's guest limit, we are only able to accomodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation.

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Are kids invited?

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Due to limited space, we have decided to keep our wedding weekend an adults-only event (18+). This pertains to children of all ages including infants, toddlers, kids, and younger teens. Enjoy a weekend off with us!

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What's the weather like in Broken Bow?

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The weather in Broken Bow in October is pleasantly warm with a breeze, with temperatures ranging from a high of 78°F to a low of 54°F. We will update this section with more information in October 2025.

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What is the timeline for the wedding day?

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2:30pm Guests Arrive to the Venue 3:00pm Ceremony 3:30pm Cocktail Hour Begins & Family Photos 4:00pm Wedding Favor Guest Photos (Optional) 5:00pm Dinner is served 5:45pm Couple's first dance 6:30pm Dessert Table Open 7:00pm Toasts 7:30pm Dance Floor Opens 10:00pm Afterparty

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Where is the ceremony and reception taking place?

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The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will be held outside at our venue at 561 Woodland Bluff Trail, Broken Bow, OK 74728 (weather permitting). Dancing, games, and a chance to win a prize will be held inside and outside of the venue. There is also a hot tub on site so please feel free to bring a bathing suit if you would like.

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What wedding events can I attend?

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You'll be able to RSPV for events you are invited to on your invitation!

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Is there parking available?

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Yes, there is free parking on site at the venue in front of the house. Parking may be limited so carpooling is recommended if possible. Please be mindful and not block anyone in!

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When should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony will begin at 3:00pm. We recommend our guest to start arriving at the venue at 2:30pm to be sure you're able to find the venue, get parking, and settle in before the ceremony begins. ⭐️ Please keep in mind that once you turn off from the main road it takes about 20 minutes to get to the venue. We will have nonalcoholic drinks and snacks for our guest to enjoy before the ceremony.

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What do I do if I am late to the ceremony?

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If you are late to the ceremony, please do not walk down the aisle and try to find a seat. While we want all of our friends and family there, we would appreciate if you would either stand off to the side or wait to join us until the reception. We thank you for understanding!

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What side do I sit for the ceremony?

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Please sit where you feel the most comfortable! On the 24th two family become one so there is no sides! If you are facing the altar the bride will be standing on the right side and the groom will be standing on the left side.

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Will there be a gap between the ceremony and reception?

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After the ceremony we will head straight to cocktail hour! There will be refreshments served and lawn, board, and video games to play while the couple finish up taking photos with their guests.

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Where do I sit for reception dinner?

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We will have an alphabetical seating chart for our guests to find their seat. The Seating Chart Sign will be inside by the snack/dessert table.

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Will there be food and alcohol?

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Absolutely! For snacks we will have Charcuterie Boards For alcohol we will have: • Wine • Beers • Seltzers ⭐️ You can also bring your own alcohol if you would like! :) Please plan accordingly and have a way to get home safely if you are drinking! For our main course we will have: • Smoked Beef Brisket, Pork Sausage & Pork Ribs • House Maple Baked Beans • Gouda Mac n’ Cheese • Green Beans • Sweet Rolls For Dessert we will have: • Cookies • Brownies • Cupcakes • S'more Charcuterie Board

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Is there a meal options for guest with dietary restrictions or allergies?

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Yes, please let us know about any dietary restrictions or allergies on your RSVP and please list your preferences.

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Will there be a photographer on site?

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Yes, we will have a photographer on site to capture moments throughout the day. Please be nice to her and stay out of her way 🫶

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Can I take photos and post them?

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We will have an unplugged ceremony, please don't get your phone out during this time. If you want to snap some photos before and after the ceremony with the POV app that is totally fine. But DO NOT get in our photographer's way, she has permission to knock you over 👀 Please do not post on social media until the couple makes the announcement, thank you for understanding.

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Where can I find photos of the wedding?

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We promise to share our photos with you as soon as possible. We will send a website link and password for you to download any photos you would like! If you would like to see photos guests have taken, 12 hours after the wedding please check out the POV app to see the day through our guest's eyes :)

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Wedding Favor - Optional Photo Op

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During cocktail hour professionals photos will be open to everyone to get photos with whoever they would like! Archie and Rachel can be, but don't have to, be in these photos. We wanted to do this for our guest as a little thank you! Y'all dressed up and are surrounded by loved ones, let's capture it so you have something to look back on! We will send out a text with the wedding link so you can download your pictures after we get back our gallery :)

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What are your registry details?

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The most important thing to us is your presence at our wedding, it's the greatest gift we could ask for! Anything in addition is not required but is immensely appreciated! Archie and I having been living together for a couple of years and are lucky enough to already have everything we need for our home. Because of this we have decided to create a honeymoon fund instead of a traditional wedding registry for our guests wanting to gift us something. There will also be a card box the day of the wedding at the welcome table.

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I have additional questions

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Please contact anyone but the bride and groom! Lisa, mother of the bride, will be able to get you some answers at (580) 461-3205.