It is dressy casual. If you are wondering what this means, this article can be helpful: https://www.cosmopolitan.com/style-beauty/fashion/a30474742/dressy-casual-dress-code-meaning/.
We don't have a "no kids" rule for our wedding. Although we are not parents, we understand that it can feel good to have a break from parenting and just have fun. We also understand that you may not have anyone that you trust with your kids. The decision is up to you. Please let us know if you are bringing kids that would prefer a kids meal over an adult meal.