FAQs

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

We hope our wedding will be a fun excuse for everyone to get dressed up with us! We are requesting a Semi-Formal dress code. This means, we encourage men to wear a classic suit or tuxedo and ladies to wear either a mid or full-length silhouette. Please no t-shirts, khakis, jeans, sneakers, or flip flops.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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We recommend that you arrive an hour before the start of the ceremony to make sure everyone is on time and we can get the party started as scheduled. Guests should begin gathering at the ceremony site at 3:30 p.m. as the ceremony will start promptly at 4:00 p.m.

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What happens after the ceremony?

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After the ceremony, the bridal party will be taking pictures nearby for around an hour. Guests can head straight to the reception area where we will be serving a wide variety of hors d'oeuvres and a full open bar.

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Are kids welcome?

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As much as we love your children, we also love a night off for you! If your little ones are able to sit through the ceremony they are more than welcome, but otherwise, with the exception of some immediate family, adults only, please.

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Can I bring a date?

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Every guest has been accounted for with a "plus one" option. Please indicate who you are RSVPing for on the "RSVP" portion of our website. Please no guests other than those listed on the invitation and RSVP.

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When should I RSVP by?

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For planning purposes, whether you are able to attend our wedding or not, please RSVP by the date on the invitation. Please contact us if you encounter problems with the online RSVP process so we can resolve any issues in a timely manner.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Of course, just note it in your RSVP when you make your dinner selection.

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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There absolutely is, and we would love to dance the night away with you! After the wedding reception ends at 10 p.m., guests will be directed to enter the Barrel Room for an after-party. Also, there will be an extravagant "I DO BBQ" at our San Diego home the day after the wedding starting at 11:30 a.m.

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When is the hotel "check out" time?

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Guests must check out by 11 a.m.