How Bumble works: a girl only has 24hours to message a guy after they "match" before the match disappears. Unless the guy extends the match, which is what Chris did that triggered a notification: "What a compliment, Chris extended your match." This allowed me another 24hours to send him a message. Chris's profile read: "Laid back, tattooed, fitness minded, looking for a partner to enjoy life experiences with and see where things go. I enjoy working out, eating out, movies, and an occasional drink. I try to live my life to the fullest with as little stress as possible. A lot to offer, but no one to give it to." Shannon's profile read: "I travel often for work and live a busy lifestyle. Looking for someone worth making time for. I am allergic to guys who are allergic to cats. Dislikes: guys who haven't figured out work-life balance and guys who have gender role expectations. You can cook AND clean the fu<*#g dishes. #teamdadbod" ... the rest is history 💕