FAQs
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Contact Information
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For any additional questions not answered on our website, you can contact the bride and groom via texting them or emailing devinandamber10262025@yahoo.com.
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What is the guideline for attire?
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Formal (black tie optional). It’s not often we will have all of our loved ones in one space together, and we want everyone to look our best as we celebrate! Please refrain from wearing jeans, t shirts, and casual attire. Ladies, there are very eager members in the bridal party with access to red wine if you decide to wear white… you’ve been warned!
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How do I RSVP?
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Once formal invitations are sent out to our guests, there will be a tab available on our website where you can confirm your RSVP selection to our virtual guest list. All responses and personal information is confidential between the guest and the soon to be married couple. RSVPing is not optional in order to attend our wedding and must be completed in order for the bride and groom to accommodate all intended guests appropriately.
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When do we need to RSVP by?
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We request you RSVP by October 1st to ensure we have proper accommodations for our guests. If we do not receive an RSVP from you, we will assume you will not be in attendance and you will not have a seat or meal planned for you to join us. If you choose to show up anyway, bring a chair and a sandwich. RSVP’s are not optional for attendance to our wedding.
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Can we bring our kids?
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We are having a child free wedding aside from our wedding party. Please enjoy a night out on us! All guests invited will be included on your formal invitations.
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Am I allowed a plus one?
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If the bride and groom are anticipating a plus one from their guest, we have addressed the guests who have been formally invited on the wedding invitations. If you believe there’s been a mistake or have further questions, feel free to reach out for clarification. Keep in mind we are aiming to achieve an intimate guest list of those closest to the bride and groom.
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Parking
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Helpful staff from the venue will be at the gate to help direct traffic to their on site parking lot. Additional help is available for guests who need to be dropped off closer to the venue and parking assistance. If you have been drinking and leave your car over night, your vehicle must be picked up by 8am the following morning.
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When am I allowed to take photos?
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We are requesting an UNPLUGGED CEREMONY (no phones or cameras). We have a photographer capturing our ceremony and will be happy to share those photos with you. Feel free to take as many pictures as you would like during the reception! Also as a courtesy, please allow the bride and groom to be the first to post about their wedding.
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Is the wedding going to be indoors or outdoors?
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BOTH! As long as the weather cooperates, we will have an outdoor ceremony and indoor reception. Weather permitting, we will also have outdoor patio access during our reception.
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Will there be assigned seating/seating charts?
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The first 2 rows will be reserved for immediate family during the ceremony, and additional guests should follow the “take a seat, not a side” approach when looking for seating. Reception will have open seating as well so feel free to sit with whoever you would like.
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Will there be an open bar?
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Yes! We want everyone to have a good time and enjoy the alcohol provided responsibly. Friendly reminder not to drink and drive! We want all of our loved ones to make it home safely as well as be safe for others on the road. The venue has the right to cut off any guests who they deem needs to be, and if conflict arises you will be asked to leave the premises.
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Orrmont Estate Rules
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Please be aware of the rules stated in our contract with the wedding venue: 1. We reserve the right to ask guests to leave if they are being destructive. 2. We reserve the right to have someone stop being served alcohol. 3. Limos and "Party Buses" are not permitted without PRIOR approval. 4. Children must be strictly monitored. Children may play in the yard; however a responsible adult must be designated (and communicated to Orrmont management) to monitor them. 5. All guests and vendors must be gone from the Estate by 1:00 AM. 6. No parking or driving on the lawn, there are designated parking spaces for persons with mobility issues. 7. No swimming, fishing, playing, or throwing things in the pond. 8. Smoking is permitted outside in designated smoking area, not in any building, on any porch, or in restrooms; cigarette butts must be discarded in proper receptacles-Orrmont reserves the right to charge for cleaning up excess cigarette butts. 9. Vehicles such as golf carts, RVs, beer trailers, and food trucks are not permitted for Estate events. 10. No tape of any kind to be used in the Clubhouse-please ask if you need suggestions on how to hang or hold down decorations. 11. As we are an outdoor facility, music must not contain foul language (explicit lyrics) and be kept at an acceptable level of volume for our neighbors. 12. No on-site cooking of any kind (including cooking in roasting pans).
