Like many couples today, we met online and later for coffee which was almost a disaster. As everyone knows I don't drink coffee so I ordered my morning soda. Pam was not impressed!!! Our second date was at Benihanas and there was definitely chemistry. So for our third date I invited to Pam for dinner at my condo. The morning of our date I learned my father was terminal, as the chemo was no longer working. In tears, I called Pam to cancel the date. Less than an hour later, she was at my door holding me. Since then we spend as much time together as possible, sharing our love of sports. Our favorites are playing soccer, watching the Rockies and playing with our boys.