FAQs
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What should I wear?
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We encourage semi-formal dresses and suit pants for our celebration. Think casual but nice dresses, dressy separates, or pants. Please avoid wearing cream or white dresses, as those colors are reserved for the bride.
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Can I bring a plus-one?
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If your invitation does not specifically mention a plus-one, we kindly ask that you honor this request and attend solo.
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What time should I arrive?
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Please arrive no earlier than 4 PM. We know some like to be fashionably early, but unless you're helping with setup, please wait until 4 PM or later to arrive.
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Do you have a registry?
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You might notice our registry has fewer items than usual. Since we’re living in a small apartment and have what we need, we were encouraged by family to ask for cash donations instead. However, we do have a few items listed for those who prefer giving a physical gift. You can find our registry on our wedding website under "Registry".
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Can I give my gift at the celebration?
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If you are not comfortable with giving us your gift digitally, please find one of Tobin or Paige's family members to put somewhere for safe keeping when you arrive.
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Are there any nearby accommodations?
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Yes, Tobin and Paige have done a good amount of research on the best places to stay locally. You can find these accommodation details on our website under "Travel."
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What is the venue address?
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The celebration will take place at Paige's parents, Rick and Pam's house. The address is located on your invitation. In case you misplace the electronic invitation, please contact Paige or Tobin.
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What will parking be like?
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Street parking is available, but please use good judgment and avoid parking where neighbors might not appreciate. There’s also designated parking up the street before you turn onto El Verano Dr, next to Indian Valley Elementary School or at the Shell Ridge Trail Head, about a 5-minute walk from our house. We also recommend considering Uber if it’s a convenient option for you.
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What kind of music will be played and can we request songs?
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Paige and Tobin are excited to have a band performing from 5:30 pm to 8:00 pm, featuring 70's and 80's acoustic rock. Dancing is encouraged! We ask that you don't suggest song requests, as the set list has been thoughtfully curated by Paige, Tobin, and the band.
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Will there be drinks?
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Yes! We have gotten a bar tender who will be making mixed drinks for all to enjoy. There will also be beer, wine and champagne and for those who prefer a non-alcoholic drink, there will also be options for that as well.
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What if I have dietary restrictions?
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While we won't be having a formal sit-down dinner, there will be many options to accommodate various dietary needs. Please let us know in advance if you have a gluten, dairy or any other intolerance, as we will have limited options for that and will need to know ahead of time if we need to get more.
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Is there a wedding ceremony?
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Paige and Tobin have opted out of having a ceremony at this celebration as they have already had two! This event is purely a celebration to reflect on their City Hall elopement and their wedding in Italy, since many were not able to make it to either of those.
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Is there an After Party?
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There will definitely be an after-party! Tobin and Paige have chosen a local restaurant and bar in downtown Walnut Creek where DJ Paigeypoo herself will be spinning tunes from 9:00 to 11:30 PM. If you want to keep the celebration going, join them at Dia y Noche in Downtown Walnut Creek!