Flight
Pretty much the only airport this area has to offer so if you are flying in, do it here
Hotel
We have a block of rooms reserved here. Good central location in Tacoma where you can wander to museums and food. More importantly, it has a bar where we plan on grabbing drinks after the wedding festivities! Click the link to get the block room rate or call in to make reservations at 253-238-8000 or 877-986-8083 and mention "Torres & Pier Wedding Block"
House Or Rental
If you want to skip the hotel for a homier place to relax then don't forget to check Airbnb. Lots of good options in the area