FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

To help us in our planning process please RSVP as soon as possible However, the deadline is May 29th 2026. If we don’t receive your RSVP by this date we cannot make exceptions and will have to mark you as a ‘no’. We have to provide the venue with a guest count in a timely manner, we hope you understand.

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

The wedding party will be wearing the color plum so we kindly ask to avoid wearing the color plum.

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Have a song you want to hear? Request it below!

Answer

https://wdrochester.com/requests.asp?djidnumber=16697 Password: Hawley

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Can I bring a date?

Answer

Due to limited space, we can only accommodate guests who are formally invited

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Are kids welcome?

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As much as we love your little ones, our wedding is exclusively for adults. With the exception of immediate family who are part of the wedding party