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FAQs

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What time should I arrive?

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Guests need to be seated at 4:00pm.

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Can I bring a guest?

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Due to limited space, we can accommodate only those guests who were formally invited on our wedding invitation. If you received a plus one, they will automatically appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding.

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Are kids allowed?

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Invitations will be specific to include the names of the children who are invited.

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When do I need to R.S.V.P. by?

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Please RSVP by January 15, 2026, using the RSVP tab on the menu. If you do not RSVP in time, we will assume you are unable to attend and you will be missed!

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What do I do if I cannot make it?

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You will be dearly missed! If you cannot attend the wedding ceremony and/or reception, please RSVP "not attending" as soon as possible so we can plan accordingly. Thank you!

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Where do I park?

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Monserate Winery has free on-site parking! We encourage our guests to arrive on time to grab a parking spot or carpool/uber/lyft.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We are having an unplugged ceremony, meaning that once the ceremony begins, we ask that all phones be put away and silenced. We want everyone to be fully present with us and for our photographer to be able to capture the best pictures which we will share with you. Once the ceremony is over, feel free to take as many pictures as you'd like, and don't forget to share them with us!

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes, the drinks are on us! Please plan your rides ahead to dance the night away safely!

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony and cocktail hour will take place outside, and the reception will be half indoor and half outdoor, depending on your seating assignment. Please dress accordingly for the chillier spring breeze at night.

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How do I give a gift to the Bride and Groom?

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Should you wish to honor us with a gift, you can do so on this website by clicking the "Registry" tab. There will also be a wishing well available at the reception for your contributions and best wishes.