FAQs

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Can we bring our children?

Answer

No! Kids will totally muck up our mojo. If you do see kids at the wedding, it's our family's kids. They get a pass. We have no choice whether they come or not.

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Should I stay overnight?

Answer

You don't have to - you can drive back to the cities after dinner if you want (1.5 hrs). My parents make that drive late at night often. If you want to party with us late, and have some casual pancakes the morning after, then you should stay! The day after is Memorial Day. So. Lodging options are on the other website tab. Contact Billy & Phoebe directly with any questions.

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What the heck does semi-formal mean?!

Answer

We are planning on dressing up ourselves as the bride and groom. We think you should all look nice and be comfortable. Other than that we don't care. Except no sweatpants. Unless they are really really nice sweatpants. And you bring matching sweatsuits for the bride and groom.

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What should I read next?

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Phoebe: "The Nightingale", "Demon Copperhead", or "The Most Fun We Ever Had". Billy: "Something that excites you."

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I don't have plans for dinner tonight - what should I cook?

Answer

Thanks for asking! Here is a delicious sheet pan recipe that Phoebe and I love: https://finecookingblog.wordpress.com/2016/05/17/curried-chicken-thighs-with-cauliflower-apricots-olives/

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What are you still doing here?

Answer

Go plan your trip before it's too late!