As hard as the decision was, our guest list has been cut back from what we ordinally planned. We apologize greatly! PLEASE RSVP AS SOON AS POSSIBLE — Cant wait to celebrate 9/25/21! 💕

September 25, 2021

Caledonia, Mn

#HitchinAHo

Heather & Phi

Wedding Party

On your wedding day you want to have the people most important to you standing by your side. We have those wonderful names listed below.

Taylor Hackensmith

Maid of Honor

Taylor and I go all the way back to kindergarten, when Taylor moved just two houses down from me. Ever since that first day we met, we became inseparable. There were very few days that we weren't together. I was always calling her house phone, running over and letting myself in just to hang out with her. Our relationship is always full of laughter and FUN. I can't imagine my life without Taylor in it. Taylor is one of the most important people in my life and I love her beyond words. Taylor knew just how strange and weird I was and still took the plunge in becoming my best friend and didn't walk away. Our friendship is perfect and can never be broken. We have the best memories together and I am so excited to make more memories together on my WEDDING DAY!!! Love you grasshopper.

Jessica Shaughnessy

Bridesmaid

Jessica is Phi's sister. We both went to High School together. When Phi and I started dating, Jessica and I quickly became close. She was newly pregnant around the time Phi and I were talking. I got to watch her become a mother and fell in love with the precious bundle she delivered, Oliver. When becoming a mother myself I was able to talk with Jessica and she helped me along the way. She has Oliver and Lillian whom mean the world to me. I love them as my own, and Jessica loves Brystol just the same. We enjoy visiting each other, coming up/down for a weekend. We enjoy being busy together. Jessica is very competitive and SO much fun. She always has ears to listen and a shoulder to cry on. I love her so dearly and couldn't be happier to have her as my sister.

Kirsten De Gear

Bridesmaid

Kirsten and I became friends in middle school through a mutual friend of ours. We hung out in a group of girls whom we are still very close with to this day. Kirsten is such a fun, caring, hard working and adventurous person. After high school we got to know each other even more. We began hanging out lots when she was in town on the weekends or on break from college. She is always there for me, and I absolutely love when we are able to just be in each others presence. I wish more people in the world were like Kirsten. I love her so much and can't wait to celebrate my special day with her by my side.

Abby Wytaske

Bridesmaid

I consider Abby my sister. I have known her a long time as we went to school together from 6th-graduation. I really got to know Abby from a previous relationship with a family member of hers. Whether we were just hanging out together at her parents house, at family events, or raving it up at festivals we ALWAYS had a blast. We got to go through the journey of becoming mothers together. Our due dates were 5 days apart. We went through it all together and I couldn't be more happier to have had her there with me. Our daughters have had play dates since they were only a couple months old and now play pretend kitchen making us plastic food we pretend is delicious. lol I love Abby and Kinsley so much, you guys are truly blessing in Brystol and my life.

Betsy Jasmer

Bridesmaid

Betsy, who's name I used to spell Besty, literally is my Bestie. She is my soul sister, we have been conjoined at the hips since we were little babes. Even though we lived 4 hours away our families got together frequent so we could enjoy our sleepovers, dance/singing performances and once we were old enough- car cruises. Our time was mainly spent at our Grandparents house. Betsy and I have been through so much together. Fun times, sad times, angry times but all times only brought us closer together. I couldn't image Betsy not being in my wedding. We have grown up fantasizing about our futures- getting married, having kids, our careers, etc and now were living these fantasies. She is such a wonderful mom to her three sweet kiddos and a very busy hardworking lady. I love her long time :)

Katie Karsjens

Bridesmaid

Katie and I have known each other since we were itty bitty. We went to the same church growing up and have remained best friends since day one. Katie and I used to hang out and pretend to be dogs or horses. We'd crawl around one of our houses and end up with carpet burns on our knees lol. We went from church camp, retreats and hanging out at our parents houses to being adults, enjoying ladies night together, weekly Mexican dinner dates where we would rant to each other, and work out partners at the gym. Katie is the sweetest girl you could ever meet. She has been there for me during my difficult times and held my head high. I am so glad she will be standing next to me on my special day. I love this girl and couldn't live with out her.

Brystol Case-Ho

Flower Girl

Well lets see, this should be a simple one to write... Brystol is our DAUGHTER and we are so excited to watch our pride and joy waltz down the isle towards us while we join together as The Ho's.