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We're getting married!
We're getting married!
September 6, 2025
Elmer, NJ

Phia and Alex's Wedding

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If you have any additional questions, please reach out to Phia or Alex.
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When do I RSVP?

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Please RSVP on this website, under the "RSVP" tab, by August 2nd, 2025. However, the sooner you can RSVP, the better. Thank you!

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what time should I arrive?

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The ceremony will begin at 3:30 pm sharp. Please be a few minutes early (but not too early!) to find your seat and get comfortable.

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ceremony and reception logistics

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The ceremony and the following reception are on the same property, A Garden Party.

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what should I wear?

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Most importantly, we want everyone to be comfortable and happy. We encourage you to wear something fun, whatever that means for you. There are no "rules" about formality. Just no white, please. See our pinterest board under the "Dress Code" tab for inspiration. The cocktail hour will be on grass, so pointy heels probably aren't the best choice(:

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can I take pictures with my phone?

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We ask for no phones to be present during the ceremony, even to take pictures. We want everyone to be present with us in this joyous moment. Our talented photographer will make sure to take lots of photos of the ceremony. After the ceremony, shoot away! Take as many pictures as you please. Remember to share them with Phia and Alex afterwards.

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Is the wedding inside or outside?

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Both! Weather permitting, the wedding ceremony will be outside, along with the cocktail hour and dancing. Dinner will be served indoors in an air-conditioned barn. The barn will be open all night if you prefer to hang out inside(:

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Can you meet my dietary needs?

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Our wedding is entirely vegetarian! We will also have gluten-free options. If you have any other dietary restrictions, please do let us know and we will accommodate you.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Unfortunately, our venue space is extremely limited so not everyone can bring a plus one. When you RSVP on our website, all the invited members of your party will be listed. If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to reach out to us.

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