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If you have any additional questions not addressed here, please reach out to Erin at (619) 733-6987 or daepharis@gmail.com.
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Are children invited?

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While we love your little ones, we kindly request that this be an adult-only celebration, unless otherwise noted on your invitation.

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Can I bring a plus-one?

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Due to space limitations, we are only able to accommodate guests whose name(s) are listed on the invitation. If you’ve been given a plus-one, it will be noted on your invitation.

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Is there a dress code?

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Summer Formal attire, please. Gentlemen are asked to wear suits and ties (no jeans), and ladies are invited to wear cocktail or floor-length dresses. Color is welcome and encouraged if you so choose!

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How do I RSVP?

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RSVPs will be collected once our formal invitations are sent out. You will be able to RSVP right here on our wedding website.

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Is there a Wedding After Party?

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Yes! If you'd like to keep the party going, join us at the Whaling Bar inside the La Valencia Hotel. The after-party will begin at 10:30 PM, 30 minutes after our reception ends, and will go until 12:30 AM. Please note, all guests must be 21+ to enter, so don’t forget your ID!

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What is the best way to get to La Jolla?

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The San Diego Airport (SAN) is the nearest airport, offering direct flights from many cities, and is about a 20-minute drive from La Jolla.

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Where should I stay?

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Hotel recommendations can be found under the 'Travel' tab on our wedding website. If you decide to stay at La Valencia Hotel, we’ve secured a discounted rate.

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Is there parking at La Valencia?

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Valet parking is available at La Valencia. For hotel guests, overnight valet parking is $30 per night, and day valet parking is $18. Otherwise, parking in La Jolla can be limited, so we recommend using a rideshare service if you're not staying within walking distance of the hotel.

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What time should I arrive on the Wedding Day?

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The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:30 PM, so we kindly ask that you arrive by 4:00 PM.

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What type of weather should I expect?

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In July, La Jolla typically enjoys warm, sunny weather with daytime highs in the mid-to-high 70s and mild evenings with lows around the mid-60s.

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Is the Wedding taking place outdoors?

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Our wedding ceremony will take place outdoors on turf, followed by a cocktail hour on a semi-covered patio, and the reception will be held indoors.

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Can I take photos during the Ceremony?

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We kindly ask that guests stow their phones and remain unplugged throughout the ceremony to allow our professional photographer and videographer to capture the special moments of our day.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Duh – the spicy margs (or whatever your drink of choice is) will be flowing!

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Are there other events happening during the wedding weekend?

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Yes! We’ve planned a few fun gatherings to keep the celebration going. Join us for Beach & Brews on Saturday, July 12th, and cheer on the Padres with us on Sunday, July 13th. Visit the Wedding Weekend Events tab on our website for more info.

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How do I buy tickets to the Sunday, July 13th Padres game?

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Tickets have been reserved together in Section 223 and are available at a discounted rate through the following link: https://www.gofevo.com/event/PharisWedding2025

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