FAQs & Wedding Attire

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

August 27, 2025 - please mail in RSVP card

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Do you have a dress code for your wedding?

Answer

For our wedding, we kindly request black tie attire. Tuxedos and evening gowns or floor length gowns are perfect. We look forward to seeing everyone in their finest attire!

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I would like to rent a tux for the wedding weekend, do you have any recommendations?

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There are several websites that we can recommend. Some have store fronts in Asheville, and some are online only: https://tuxedo.menswearhouse.com/, https://go.generationtux.com/, https://tuxedo.josbank.com/, https://www.mitchellstuxedos.net/ or https://perfecttux.com/.

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What time should I arrive to the ceremony?

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The ceremony begins at 6:00 PM, and we ask that guests arrive at 5:30 PM, which is 30 minutes prior to the ceremony start time.

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Can I bring a date?

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Your invitation will notify you if you have a plus one. Thank you for understanding.

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Are children invited to the wedding?

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While we love your children, we have decided to have our wedding be an adult only event. We hope this advance notice means you are still able to share this momentous occasion with us. If you are wanting to travel with your children, here are a couple of websites that may be helpful so you can hire a sitter for the wedding festivities, yet have them with you on the trip to Asheville: https://www.care.com/ or https://www.sittercity.com/

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Yes, we have room blocks available. Please check the Hotels tab on our website.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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When you RSVP, please add your allergies and/or dietary restrictions.