Probably Thought But Not Asked Questions

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Didn't you already get married?

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We sure did! But, because of covid, we could only invite our in-town wedding party and family. And, while it was absolutely wonderful, we want to share our happiness and excitement with so many more people! (Plus, we had a lot of non-refundable deposits out there, and Yzzy likes throwing big parties.)

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When should I RSVP by?

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February 1, 2022. If you don't RSVP by then, bring a chair and a sandwich. (Seriously, I gotta get attendance numbers to my caterer!)

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How serious are you about Covid precautions.

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By Feb. 2022, we're really hoping most people will be vaccinated. We trust science. So, if you are not vaccinated, we ask that you wear a mask (if you forget one, we'll have some disposables to wear), and act like the global pandemic is still going on.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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When you RSVP, please let us know that you have a food sensitivity- we will do our best to be accommodating! We already have GF, DF, and vegetarian pizza on the menu!

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So...how is this going to work?

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The plan is to have a big ol' party. We'll start with a quick vow renewal, and proceed with food, drink, dancing, and just having FUN.

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Where are you registered?

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We have a registry through Zola, Target, and Amazon. You can click the registry section up at the top to find them all.

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Tell me about parking.

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The parking in that part of town is terrible. There's a parking lot a few blocks away, but we have hired valet, so you don't have to worry about it! It'll be so fancy!

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Can I take my own photos?

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Imma be honest. The single most expensive part of this whole wedding gig are the two professional photographers I have hired to take photos of our ceremony, so we ask that you keep your phones/cameras/ipads away (and on silent) for our ceremony. Once the ceremony is over, feel free to take as many photos as you would like ( #pensandneedlessayido) but not only do we prefer it, it's in our photography contract to have an "unplugged" ceremony. We are planning on having a moment exclusively for people to take photos during the ceremony, though! But no spoilers, please! Wait until after the reception to post!

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Are my kids invited?

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We love your kids. But our venue has a fairly restrictive capacity, and we didn't even get to invite all the adults we wanted to come! Currently, the only kids invited are ones that are directly involved in our wedding party and their siblings. So take the night off- you deserve it! Come eat, drink, kick up your heels, and be merry with us without having to worry about your kiddos!

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I'm coming in the night before, can I meet up with you guys?

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TBD

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What time should I arrive?

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The hot cocoa and coffee bar will open at 5:00. So, unless you want to be put to work, not before then. Ceremony is planned for 5:30.

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It is the day of and I am LOST! Yzzy, help me!

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No. Please just google it. Amanda is going to give her phone away at noon the day of the wedding and not touch it again until after the reception. (Amanda will lose her phone GUARANTEED if she has it.) We will have at least one day of coordinator (and fourteen combined wedding attendants!) who will be in charge of our phones. Please contact someone else!

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Is your ceremony going to be outdoors?

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It is! There will be a hot cocoa and coffee bar open before the ceremony (as well as a few choice liquors) and, if the weather calls for it, we are planning on renting large heaters. Also, the reception will be indoors and outdoors- with a couple of lovely lit fireplaces to warm your hands.

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Will there be food?

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The Andolini's Pizza food truck will be out front beginning at 5:30, serving five kinds of pizza (including gluten free crust and a dairy free option) as well as an appetizer grazing table inside and, naturally, delicious desserts.

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Are you going to have drinks?

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Yes, and bring your ID. We have professional bar tenders hired, and our bar will consist of a couple of signature cocktails, wine, and beer. We will also have water, tea, and various sodas in ice chests.

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Can we stay and help you clean up? (I know you SCA people!)

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First and foremost: this is absolutely NOT expected of you. Hopefully we will be cleaning as we go, but help hauling stuff to cars will be more than welcome. Find our coordinator and ask her if she would like help.

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Is your venue handicap accessible?

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Yes and No. Dresser Mansion was built in 1919, so the ADA didn't exist then. There are some hard to get to spots, but the owner assures us that anyone with special needs will be able to access the main points of the mansion (and, by extension, ceremony and reception.) (He hosts over 100 weddings a year- I'm sure he knows what he's talking about.)

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I have a conceal carry permit. I'm bringing my gun.

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Please don't. Dresser is a no weapons on premises venue. It's in the contract. Sorry. Keep it in your house, your room or your car (although, as previously stated, there's going to be valet, so maybe not in your car.)

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Hold it right there, Millennials, did you say you have a hashtag?

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Abso-stinking-lutely. We want to search facebook, instagram, twitter, or whatever social media platform you use and see new photos of the wedding. Please use it! #pensandneedles or #pensandneedlessayido

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I have another question you didn't answer.

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Okay, cool- ask Amanda in person, on messenger, or email the couple at pensandneedlessayido@gmail.com