We've known each other since teenage years, but never gave it a thought. He's the nephew to my brother in law. So we've been around each other for about 30 some years. Years passed, and I wasn't aware he had eyes for me until my sister and her children (my niece and nephews) told me. James stated he's had a 14 year crush. How could I not be flattered by that. So we started chatting a lot. He and I both were in bad places in our previous marriages, and both was close to divorce, and had been separated for some time. Both did not start seeing each other until after it was over with our other situations. Now... All I can see is us in our Future!! This is my gift from heaven. He's wonderful, everything my Dad always said I deserved.