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June 7, 2019
San Juan Capistrano, CA
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Tatum & Payton

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The Wedding Website of Tatum Hathaway and Payton Reisman

Cody Schmitz

Groomsman & Officiant

Cody is one of Payton & Tatum's biggest fans and has been an influential part of their relationship since the very beginning. So, when they were contemplating the role of an officiant, they really couldn't think of anyone more perfect for the job. Payton met Cody in 6th grade, and from baseball and basketball to spending everyday of summer together, Payton has always considered Cody a brother. Payton looks forward to a lifetime of drinking nightcaps together and continuing their long distance "bro-mance" via Facetime calls and frequent trips up to the PNW. The bride and groom also keep him around because he knows too much.


Tori Hendricks

Maid of Honor

Tori and Tatum have been best friends since their early high school years and bonded over sleepovers on school nights, writing notes on behalf of their parents to call themselves out of school early, coining the term "leftsiders", and crushing on their high school history teacher. Tori and the bride have been friends for over 10 years and counting and distance might keep them from spending as much quality time together as they'd like, but Tori and Tatum always pick up exactly where they left off. Way before meeting payton, tatum had always dreamt of what her wedding would be like. She always knew that she wanted Tori by her side on her special day.

Austin Reisman

Best Man

Payton has always looked up to his big brother...so much so that he actually started straightening his hair in 6th grade to keep up with Austin's style. This still holds true today. But, thankful for Tatum and Ismilda, the Reisman brothers outgrew their hair straightener. Growing up, Payton liked to show his love for Austin through torment. Today, Payton and Austin playfully reminisce of all the fun childhood memories they shared. Payton couldn’t have imagined anyone else to play the role of his “best man”.


Izzy Schmitz

Bridesmaid

Since their high school days of driving around in Izzy's mom's van singing along to a Michael Buble CD, Tatum has always cherished the many happy memories they share. Ten years later, the bride is thankful to be navigating adulthood with Izzy, and enjoys the unique dynamic that the Schmitz and soon-to-be Reisman families share. Tatum is happy to report that the Schmitz family's recent (devastating) move to Washington has simply given her and Payton an excuse to frequently explore the Pacific Northwest. She continues to look forward to her phone calls with Izzy during her commute to work, and their life updates via Facetime. Tatum's special day wouldn't be complete without izzy by her side.

Jacob St Onge

Groomsman

Jacob and Payton went to elementary school together, which makes their friendship +20 years old. There isn't anything not to love about Jacob, and he just might be the reason Payton and Tatum are together today. Jacob invited everyone out to Swallows Bar that infamous night in December of 2014 that lead to their "forever". Without Jacob, there also wouldn't be a a Pokey Reese Paint Job music video. Needless to say, he brings a lot to the table.


Alex Baptiste

Groomsman

Payton and Alex first met while playing 8th grade basketball together. But, Payton's first memory with Alex wasn't until SJH's first football game freshman year. They sat next to each other in the stands and Payton vividly recalls Alex confessing "i'm going to date her one day" as he pointed to a girl walking by (They never did end up dating, but Payton's elementary school connections landed Alex a solid friendship). Payton and Alex have been best friends ever since. The groom is very thankful to have a friend like Alex, and finds comfort in knowing that he will always have his back. The party hasn't started until Alex shows up, so no doubt that Payton looks forward to Alex playing a part in their celebration.

Tucker Hathaway

Groomsman

Payton is thankful to have a soon-to-be brother in law like Tuck. As Tatum's brother, he realizes how much Payton puts up with and has therefore welcomed him with open arms. Payton appreciates that Tuck is always up for spending time with family and looks forward to the nights at home with the Hathaway gang gathered over good laughs and a few bottles of wine.


Nick Vansell

Groomsman

Nick and Payton met in elementary school and grew up playing junior basketball together with Nick's dad as their coach. Payton is thankful to know a good guy like Nick and appreciates that he is always down to catch up over a few drinks and enjoy time together whenever he is in town from Northern California. Payton says that it definitely wouldn't be "the guys" without Nick and looks forward to having him by his side for the big day.

Nash Hathaway

Groomsman

Payton enjoys spending time with Nash and appreciates that he's always welcomed him into the family. Like Tucker, its probably because he knows that it takes a special person to keep up with Tatum. Payton looks forward to the time he spends with Nash and the rest of the Hathaway family. From nights sitting around the fire pit to a game of cornhole, its always a good time when they are together. Payton looks forward to having Nash by his side on the big day.


Madison Lindekens

Bridesmaid

Mads holds a special place in Tatum's heart - Tatum has always looked up to Mads for being her quirky, inexcusable self, and the bride recalls there never being a dull moment for these two when they were younger. From sneaking Mads out of class in her trunk to shotgunning coors light in Nick Vansell’s bathroom, there was no one else she would have rather made such poor teenage decisions with. Tatum always looks forward to the time they get to share together and has enjoyed watching mads unfold into the soul-filled woman she is today. Mads was also the bride’s wing woman that infamous night in December that lead to Payton and Tatum’s forever (!!!).

Darian Didier

Bridesmaid

Although a best friend of the bride, the groom has actually known Darian for much longer (and they share a birthday!). While Payton's first memory of Darian was in kindergarten, Tatum's first memory with her wasn't until she moved to California freshman year of high school. Darian and Tatum have been friends ever since, but shared most of their favorite memories through their college years. Tatum loves Darian's optimistic outlook on life and admires her never ending kindness to the world. Distance might keep them from meeting up for wine on a regular basis, but it sure hasn't prevented them from continuing to cheer each other on.


Ismilda Botic

Bridesmaid

Ismilda first met Tatum that infamous night at Swallow's in 2014 when she and Austin came to pick up Payton (and unknowingly, Tatum too). Little did either of them know that they would one day become family. Tatum appreciates the laughs that they share and looks forward to all of the special family memories that are to come with their growing Reisman gang!

Lauren Reisman

Bridesmaid

Tatum loves that Lauren welcomed her into the family so quickly and is thankful for the many memories that they've shared over the past few years. Tatum admires Lauren’s big heart and enjoys the brother/sister relationship that Payton and her share. When thinking about her bridal party, Tatum knew right away that Lauren would make the cut. She can't wait to celebrate with Lauren by her side.

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