FAQs
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WHEN SHOULD I RSVP BY?
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Please kindly RSVP by May 18th! You can RSVP by clicking the "RSVP" tab in the menu above.
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WHAT SHOULD I DO IF I CANNOT MAKE IT?
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You will be dearly missed! If you can not make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP "Will Not Attend" so we can plan accordingly. Thank you!
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CAN I BRING A GUEST/ DATE?
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Due to our limited capacity, we're only able to welcome those formally invited on your invitation. If you've received a plus-one, you'll see them listed under your name when you RSVP. We're happy to answer any questions - please feel free to reach out!
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IS THERE A DRESS CODE?
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We'd love to see our friends and family dress up with us! We are requesting that everyone wear formal attire to both the ceremony and reception. For formal attire think dark suits with ties and elegant dresses, from floor-length gowns to elevated cocktail styles.
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WHERE SHOULD I STAY FOR THE WEEKEND?
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We are so grateful you are traveling to celebrate with us! Please visit the "Travel" tab to see hotels in the area.
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WHAT TIME SHOULD WE ARRIVE TO THE CEREMONY?
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Mass will begin promptly at 1 PM. Please arrive no later than 12:50 PM in order to not interrupt the processional.
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WHERE SHOULD I PARK?
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For the ceremony, there is free parking across the street from Holy Family Cathedral that everyone can park in. For the reception, there will be complimentary valet at Dresser Mansion. If you plan to drink at the reception, we kindly encourage you to use Uber, Lyft, or another ride service to get home safely.
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WHAT SHOULD WE DO BETWEEN THE CEREMONY AND THE RECEPTION?
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The ceremony should end around 2 PM, and cocktail hour will begin at 5 PM. We acknowledge there is a three-hour gap between the end of the ceremony and the beginning of the reception. The "Catholic Gap" is a great time to explore some of our Tulsa favorites (or head back to the hotel for a power nap!). Please see the "Things To Do" tab for our favorite spots in town.