FAQs

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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Yes! If you are staying at one of the hotels with a wedding block there will be a complimentary shuttle to and from the hotel🚌 See Travel & Hotel section of our website for more details

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When should I RSVP by?

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April 1, 2024 🗓️

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What should I wear? What is Creative Black Tie?

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Creative black tie outfits include the use of different textures, prints, patterns, colors, or accessories to create your own fun (and still elegant) look. We want you to show up and show out and look absolutely fabulous! 💋

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How to get to Oakdale?

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Flying? 🛬 Bourne is located on Long Island! Closest airport: JFK & LGA are equidistant and ~45-60min drive. Can taxi, Uber, or Lyft to your hotel Trains from NYC🚂 Take the LONG ISLAND RAIL ROAD (LIRR) from Penn Station to Islip, Central Islip, or Oakdale station. Train will take ~78min. Can taxi, Uber, or lyft to hotel. For times visit the MTA website Driving from NYC? 🚙 Please estimate 60-90minutes to get from Manhattan to Bourne Mansion

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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We ask that you arrive at 5:45pm. The ceremony will promptly begin at 6pm! 💕

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes! Please note it in your RSVP📝

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Is there parking at the wedding?

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Yes - free valet parking is available🚘

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Can I bring a date?

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We’re so excited to celebrate with our nearest & dearest. If you receive a plus one, it will appear on your RSVP🪩🍾

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Are kids welcome?

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RSVPs will note if your children are invited! 💃🏼🪩🍾

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Unique Traditions?

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As you know, we’re both Jewish! During the ceremony, Ryan will stomp on a glass and you’ll all shout “Mazel Tov’”. We will have a couple traditional dances ie. Horah and Mezinke